There’s no way to communicate the extent to which my circumstances have been negatively affecting me and I’m simply looking for good (female) company—open to wherever it may lead. I’m trying hard to reverse that momentum, but life keeps delivering heavy blow after heavy blow.

I’m generally a very positive individual—hiding my current circumstances from people in my circle (because so many of these people are depending on me right now). While I am positive—I also believe that openness and transparency is a good thing. Vulnerability is a strength in disguise. When I express my feelings of fallibility, they are not to be mistaken as weakness. I’m the type of person that people seek out when they feel like the walls are caving in, or when they lose hope.

Last time I posted, I shared a wonderful conversation, and more, with an impressive woman. Unfortunately, there was miscommunication around the intent of my original post. While we both shared healthy feelings, I realized she didn’t recognize, from my original post, that I was dealing with a lot of heartache—from relationships, personal and work.

I don’t receive compliments easily but I’m often told I’m ‘handsome.’ I have high EQ (very observant), and I am very passionate and curious about a wide range of topics (schooling). I’m very athletic and believe to be quite fit (5’7”). Olive skin, dark hair and eyes, clean shaven (but a near perma 5 o’clock shadow lol). I have a great job, successful, have my place, disease/drug free. While I can be adventurous and spirited, I love taking things slow and playfully. I’m on the bigger side (length and girth) and I have some fantasies around that…

• I’m open to something short, simple.
• I’m open to talking on the phone / in person with someone who thinks they can give me a run for my money (re: emotional intelligence).
• I’m open to something deeper, more consistent.

I’m straight, and attracted to fit women. Intelligence (IQ and EQ) get me going. Height is not a problem (tall ladies… you wouldn’t be the tallest unless you’re > 6’2”).

All the best.🧡