Who is this guy:

I am a 36 year old, jack of all trades, master of none, daddy dom, looking for a sub boy, girl or trans person of any kind, who is also is looking for a slow build, short/long term kink based relationship. I want to hang out at least a bit before rushing to a bedroom for play, while I did write this horny, I am not looking for a living fleshlight (outside of the bedroom) I am looking for a genuine connection/friend to send memes, talk about our days, explore the area or check out events, and yes, get into wild and depraved sexual adventures. Maybe go to munches together?

A bit about me

• Total homebody, but we will definitely check out museums and maybe some munches/events
• Looks wise, Mr. Clean with a slender dad bod
• 6'0, 170 lbs, shaved head and eastern euro looking face.
• Thick hairy thighs, smooth torso, moderately hairy non-skinny arms

What I am Looking For:

Communication first and foremost. While most, if not all of us, come here horny, I am looking for a connection first, sex (talk) can come later. I am looking for someone I can bond with over hobbies and interests, even if we don't share the same ones, before we bond over sexual wants and desires. I am getting back into working out, but otherwise am a total home body. Love checking out some sights around cities and museums but would rather spend most days indoors in pajamas. Of course our first few meets will be in mutually comfortable public settings, but I would much rather spend the average time together indoors, in pajamas, chilling together sharing stories, memes, tiktoks/reels or just binge watching shows together. And kinky sex when it gets there ;P

I am experienced in vanilla sex, but have done next to no kinky sex outside of some mild bondage and edging. I don't care your level of experience, as long as you are okay with mine, or lack their of. But as we get to know each other, I'd like it to be over the course of good conversation and enjoying hearing from each other.

So if this sounds like anything that fits within your borders of desires, and you're looking for a str/ltr/preferred, feel free to reach out! Would love to hear more than just your kinky wants and needs, I would love to hear about your hobbies and interests you'd like to be able to share while we aren't covered in sweat ;)

When it does come to sex, I am not rushing it, whenever you feel comfy we can cross that bridge, I am more than fine waiting well beyond whatever the standard number of dates, but ideally not 3 months. Again, all about vibe and comfort for now, not interested in just sex.

Some desired traits of you:

• can talk passionately about their hobbies interests hopes and dreams
• subs preferred, open to brats
• open to dom bottoms/girls
• has a job: I just finished school and training, so am able to split a hotel and cover all travel needs until I get my own private place
• can carry their half of a conversation.

But I digress!

Kinks:

None are done without long discussions and adding them in to our sex life gradually, I am not looking to try jumping into our first sexual experience being bondage gear and paddles. Ideally.

Way to many to list without seeming crazy, but primarily bondage, sub/slave training, impact play.

Full disclosure, I am very well read on kinks but am almost completely without practice. I have done a few edging and sex sessions with bondage, but outside of that, its been very vanilla.

But I am also a daddy dom that loves to please. If it turns you on, I want to learn how to best provide it to you. I am willing to try and explore all of your kinks, from age play to CNC, I am looking to explore any authoritative role that gets us deeper into our kinky needs and desires.

I also used to post solo themed nude stuff on reddit way back before onlyfans, would love to get back into erotic photography/film but only if we're both into/open to it, and only after we are very comfortable with each other.

Also none of my kinks are set in stone. If we have any overlap, I am 100% willing to play within our overlap and not push any boundaries, so don't feel like you if you aren't into enough for us to have a good time together!

Happy hunting!

Daddy J