Hey there!

I’m looking to connect with a fun and adventurous girl who’s into exploring the kinky side of life. I’m someone who values good communication, trust, and mutual respect in any kind of relationship, especially when it comes to intimate or kinky dynamics. Sit tight because this is going to be a long post.

Background:

I've been kinky since my teen years without even understanding what it is. I remember finding a hentai called "Cool Devices" and thought it was a lot more fun than regular old penis goes in, penis comes out porn. I've had many relationships, and the ones where we drown ourselves in judgement free lust consistently rank at the top of the list.

Why Reddit:

While I enjoy dating apps and going out to bars/clubs, it's a little difficult to bring up topics revolving around sex before being intimate. And, of course, after being intimate you learn most girls are pretty vanilla. There were fun relationships where we started vanilla and turned it kinky through experimenting, but those are rare. This is why I'm turning to Reddit, where I can clearly define what I'm looking for under the veil of anonymity.

About me:

-5'11

-170 lbs, I work out twice weekly and stay in shape.

-Asian

-5.5' uncut

-Been called handsome by women that's not my mom

Personality wise, I'm dominant, funny, and open minded. I'm very clean and expect the same from a playmate. During the day, I work on Bay Street at a high stress job and flip the switch when I get home to relax. I can host or drive (actually, one thing I want to try is to have sex in my convertible with the roof down).

I’m interested in choking, rough sex, power play, roleplay, CNC, hypno, sleep play, age play, dirty talk, degradation (you), praise (both), freeuse, etc. The list is some of the things I know I like, there are more, but we'd be here all day listing them all. Happy to share more over DMs. I’m also open to exploring new things and learning from each other. The most important thing for me is that we’re both comfortable and communicate openly about boundaries and limits.

Limits for me are things that cause permanent disfigurement and being unclean, such as poop, because ew, germs.

Who I'm looking for:

Physical attraction is essential; in this case, as long as you look good, I don't have age, race or body type requirements.

If you are interested in some of the things I mentioned above or have other ideas we can explore, that's what is important. Of course, I don't expect someone to have a complete overlap of everything I like, but the more, the better ;)

Verification:

Lots of people on R4R are comfortable sharing their pictures. I am not one of them. Just in case one of my friends looks on this subreddit, I don't want all this kinkiness to be public information. With that said, I am happy to plan a safe way for us to scope each other out without any commitments. I have some ideas and am also open to suggestions.

If this post interests you, send me a message with a little about yourself. Feel free to share your interests, boundaries, and what you’re looking for. I’d love to start a conversation and see where it goes.

Looking forward to hearing from you!