Hey there! Just a guy here seeking a connection to add some razzledazzle to my life

I’m looking for somebody who is kind, thoughtful and empathetic.

Attraction and compatibility matter a lot to me. However, that can come in many forms, so I am casting a pretty wide net. I don’t expect to find everything I’m looking for.

What I’m looking for/who I am:

Sex/gender: You: I am open to all people who do not currently have a penis Me: I am a man

Age: You: probably late 20s to late 50s Me: I am 51

Height: You: probably 4’10”- 5’10” Me: I am 5’5”

Weight:

You: from thin to chubby, probably Me: I’m chubby

Ethnicity/culture/religion/culture: You: I give no fucks about any of these things, but I do like to learn about and experience new things Me:I’m Canadian born, white, non-religious

Activities:

Physical: pretty flexible - some physical stimulation is necessary, but does not necessarily need to be particularly sexual. Sexual is awesome too, if that’s your wish. I’m open-minded.

Mental/emotional: Some level of friendship and/or romance is preferred. Can be low key to more substantial.

Happy to do some non bedroom related stuff too, but that is optional.

Duration: if you are only looking for a one-off, I’m not that interested. I’m hoping to find something that becomes ongoing

Intensity: from casual to deeply entangled

Location: prefer west Toronto to Hamilton

Hosting: I can’t, but will pay for hotels

Other attachments: You: I don’t care what your other romantic/relationship attachments are Me: I am married, and this would not be ENM, just NM. I am not looking to turn this into something that changes my marriage/family situation

Duration: if you are only looking for a one-off, I’m not that interested. I’m hoping to find something that becomes ongoing

Intensity: from casual to deeply entangled

Location: prefer west Toronto to Hamilton

Hosting: I can’t, but will pay for hotels

Thanks for reading! Reach out If you think we could potentially match. I’m happy to move slowly, and for whatever happens to evolve over time.

I would prefer a face to face meeting fairly quickly. Can be a short coffee date in a public place.