I stumbled across a great pinned post from a week or so ago with detailed advice for how guys should be posting and I figured I’d give it a shot, at least I know this is what one person is looking for! And thanks to other posts for this template.

A little bit about me:

• I am 30, White, 6’2 and on the slimmer side, workout at home semi regularly, never been a big gym person. Typically keep a groomed mid length beard and shorter hair

• I’d consider myself to be relatively good looking, definitely not a model, but if I had to rate on a scale I’d say a 7-7.5 out of 10.

• DDF, very good hygiene, STI free. I do drink casually and am 420 friendly.

• Located east of Toronto in the Durham Region. Able to host periodically, but happy to travel as well if you are able to host.

• Would prefer to be discreet from both a relationship and professional standpoint, I can provide additional info if needed but I’ll leave it at that for now.

• I consider myself a pretty laid back guy, nothing gets me too flustered, I am caring and by no means plan to put myself first, looking for something that works for both parties and communication is key.

• I’m a big sports fan, I play video games and try to stay current on the big tv shows, so if you enjoy any of those it would be nice to have some shared interests!

What I’m looking for:

• A woman, within 5 years of age either way of me (this isn’t a hard limit, the connection matters more, but just a guideline)

• Appearance is flexible. I would just prefer someone who takes care of themselves, would consider themselves to be fit and or healthy along the same lines as me, and some curves or assets is always a plus. I would like there to be a mutual attraction obviously though, just harder to give specifics without it being a page long.

• A FWB type arrangement where we also can chat and have some connection outside of just the hookups, but the focus would be on the sex first and foremost. I’m open to a ONS as well but would prefer something longer term.

• Can potentially host as well or is open to discussing it down the road so it isn’t completely dependent on my availability to host.

• Potentially kink friendly or at least looking to explore a bit in the bedroom. I’ve always been pretty vanilla, but would love the opportunity to explore with someone who either has experience or wants to learn along side me.

Also tell me your favourite musician/artist so I know you read this :)

The plan:

Send me a chat or DM and let’s see if we are compatible! I’d prefer to exchange pics (potentially a call / FaceTime) sooner than later to confirm that mutual attraction at a minimum then continue to get to know each other. I will be fairly cautious just for my own safety and yours, but once we are both happy to move on (I’m not in a rush, this could be a day or a couple weeks) I think a public meeting, either a quick coffee or drink at a bar to get a better feeling for each other in person prior to anything further. From that point we can kind of just feel out how quickly things are progressing and move naturally with it, I don’t want to plan out each step of this, just looking to have some fun with it.

Thanks for reading! I look forward to hearing from everyone!