I like treating consenting women horribly, and that's what I'm looking to do with you. I am looking for something ongoing, but may be open to a one time thing depending on the person.

Also, if you're bi or bicurious and want to play with women, read on.

This is a long post; if you want to be treated like a fucktoy and a set of holes, it's worth your time to read it all.

About me

I'm in my late 30s, educated, work as a management consultant, live on my own and enjoy reading, sports, cooking, and trying new bars/restaurants. I'm fit, relatively hung, and have great stamina. I'm an experienced Dom, slut trainer, sadist, and a rough sex enthusiast who gets off on doing to consenting women things that might be regarded as abuse by most. As I've told one of my partners before, "I show you love by treating you horribly".

I currently have a couple of well-trained, submissive partners; I'm looking for one more. If you're scared and want to watch me to use these partners first to start and to get an idea of what to expect, this can be arranged.

My post history has several pictures of me and my other fucktoys.

About you

I'm looking for an open-minded, in-shape woman, who is either bi or bi-curious, into rough and mean play, and looking to be trained.

Bonus points if you're a white collar professional with a demanding job (e.g., law, medicine, consulting, etc.). Additional bonus points if you're petite and under the age of 30.

Our first meeting (date?)

First dates are always in public, over coffee or a drink, or a walk in the park. After that, you'll go home, and if we're both interested, we'll meet again to play.

Before we meet, I will send you a list of questions for you to answer in writing so I can refer back to your responses when needed. The questions will touch on several relevant topics, including your limits and past experience.

During this initial meeting, there would be significant communication to establish limits, likes, dislikes, fantasies, etc. We will also go over the responses to the aforementioned list of questions, to ensure I haven't misunderstood anything. Once we're done our initial discussion, we'd both go home and meet in private at a later date, if it's something we both want.

Of course, you are more than welcome - and encouraged - to ask questions of me before and during this initial meeting.

Everything is up for negotiation; however, if something that is a hard limit for you is something I can't go without, I'll let you know and we won't go any further.

Our second meeting

If our first date goes well and we are both interested in playing, we'll set up a day for us to meet at my place. This would take place on a weekend when we can both commit a few hours.

You will be told what to wear the first time, and I will check at the door to make sure you've followed orders. We will then sit and have a drink, while we go over your limits again and I walk you through what has been planned.

The first play session will be tamer than normal (unless you're very experienced), and I will check-in often, given that I have not learned your body yet. If you're a newbie who doesn't yet know her limits and what she likes, we will spend time trying new things to figure it out.

What to expect during the first session

I operate differently based on my partner. With certain partners, I am able to, and enjoy, operating as a more gentle, affectionate Dom, similar to a pleasure Dom. If this is what you're looking for, mention it to me in your initial message.

With other partners, it can be a little dark, and to be honest, this is my favourite. An outside observer might consider it abusive and degrading.

It might be considered physically abusive because I like hurting you, choking you, putting my foot on your throat, spitting on your pretty face, using you as a footstool, restraining you, ordering you to rim me, and more.

Verbally and mentally, I enjoy objectifying you, letting you know what a desperate, little fucktoy you are, making you wear a collar and leash, reminding you how greedy you are for cock, and telling you how your best qualities are your tight holes. I enjoy making women cum, but I also enjoy edging them first and only letting them cum once they've begged like a desperate slut. I like reminding women how dirty they are and how good that is.

I love being in control, and I expect my partners to give up control and do as told. Again, if something is a limit, you will not be ordered to do that thing.

None of my verbal abuse relates to body shaming or making you feel worthless. I just want you to feel like a good whore. Besides, your holes have worth, so you can't be entirely worthless.

When we're done, your holes will be in pain and your ass will likely be marked up. You'll be a sweaty, cum and spit drenched mess. You'll feel used, like a set of holes whose sole purpose is to be used by me, and you'll be happy about it.

After that, we'll cuddle, chat, debrief, I'll feed you and keep you warm, we'll shower, and end the night.

Aftercare will always be provided (unless it's something you specifically do not want), and includes me checking in after you've gone home. You're also welcome to spend the night, if you so choose.

After the first play session

I am looking for something ongoing, as I find sex is better with a person with time. However, I'm not opposed to a one-time session either.

If this becomes an ongoing thing, I would like it to become a FWB situation. My subs and I spend lots of time outside of the bedroom, including going on hikes, overnight trips, and spending nights out eating, drinking, and dancing.

If this becomes ongoing, we won't be engaging in BDSM scenes every time. There will be times when we will just hang out and have tons of sex interspersed with cuddles.

If this becomes an ongoing thing, you must be open to meeting my other subs, and if there's mutual attraction, playing with them. This is non-negotiable and if you are not open to even meeting my other girls, this will not work.

If you're a cuck couple, you are welcome to message me. I'm not interested in couples who are looking to swap or watch without being involved.

Men, this post is not for you. However, since many of you keep messaging for advice, you're welcome to message me for that.

If any of the above resonates with you, message me and let's talk. If you message me, include the following information: name, age, a description of what you look like, and what you do for a living or are studying in school. You are welcome to share a picture if you choose, but this is not required, given that this is Reddit.