Who is this guy:

I am a 36 year old, jack of all trades, master of none, aspirirng daddy dom, looking for a sub boy, girl or trans person of any kind, who is also is looking for a slow build, short/long term kink based relationship. And when I say slow build, I do not mean message me with "hey", lets have an honest back and forth chat

A bit about me

• Looks wise, Mr. Clean with a slender dad bod
• 6'0, 170 lbs, shaved head and eastern euro looking face.
• Thick hairy thighs, smooth torso, moderately hairy non-skinny arms

What I am Looking For:

Communication first and foremost. While most, if not all of us, come here horny, I am looking for a connection first, sex (talk) can come later. I am looking for someone I can bond with over hobbies and interests, even if we don't share the same ones, before we bond over sexual wants and desires. I am getting back into working out, but otherwise am a total home body. Love checking out some sights around cities and museums but would rather spend most days indoors in pajamas. Of course our first few meets will be in mutually comfortable public settings, but I would much rather spend the average time together indoors, in pajamas, chilling together sharing stories, memes, tiktoks/reels or just binge watching shows together. And kinky sex when it gets there ;Pain

I am experienced in vanilla sex, but have done next to no kinky sex outside of some mild bondage and edging. I don't care your level of experience, as long as you are okay with mine, or lack their of. But as we get to know each other, I'd like it to be over the course of good conversation and enjoying hearing from each other.

So if this sounds like anything that fits within your borders of desires, and you're looking for a str/ltr/preferred, feel free to reach out! Would love to hear more than just your kinky wants and needs, I would love to hear about your hobbies and interests you'd like to be able to share while we aren't covered in sweat ;)

When it does come to sex, I am not rushing it, whenever you feel comfy we can cross that bridge, I am more than fine waiting well beyond whatever the standard number of dates, but ideally not 3 months. Again, all about vibe and comfort for now, not interested in just sex.

Some desired traits of you:

• can talk passionately about their hobbies interests hopes and dreams
• subs preferred, open to brats
• open to dom bottoms/girls
• has a job: I just finished school and training, so am able to split a hotel and cover all travel needs until I get my own place
• can carry their half of a conversation.

Other than that I am wide open, I don't really have a laundry list of o

But I digress!

Kinks:

Full disclosure, I am very well read on kinks but am almost completely without practice. I have done a few edging and sex sessions with bondage, but outside of that, its been very vanilla.

As for what I am into (copied from fetlife page):

Aftercare, Age Play, Anal, Anal Beads, Anal Hooks, Anal Sex, Analingus, Ass Play, Ass to Mouth, Ass worship, Bareback, Begging, Belt Whippings, Biting, Blindfolds, Blow Jobs, Body Worship, Bondage, Breath Play, Candle Wax, Caning, Chains, CNC, Cocksucking, Collar and Lead/Leash, Control, Crops, Cuckold, Cuckolding, Cuckqueen, Cunnilingus, Daddy/little, Degradation, Discipline, Edge Play, Erotic Massage, Exhibitionism, Eye Contact, Face Slapping, Facials, Fear, Filming, Flashing, Flogging, Gags, Torture, Worship, Hair Pulling, Handcuffs, Humiliation, Kneeling, Lingerie, Master/Slave, Masturbation, Mind Fucks, Master/slave, Oral Sex, Orgasm Denial, Pain, Public Play, Punishment, Role Play, Rope, Rope Play, Sadism, Sadomasochism, Sensual Domination, Sex In Public, Sexual Slavery, Shibari, Silk, Slapping, Spanking, Spitting, Spreader Bars, Squirting, Strap-ons, Suspension, Swallowing, Swinging, Switching, Talking Dirty, Tearing off Clothing, Tears, Throat Fucking, Tit Fucking, Tongue Sucking, Tongues, Total Power Exchange, Toys, Verbal Humiliation and Degradation, Voyeurism, Watersports,

But I am also a daddy dom that loves to please. If it turns you on, I want to learn how to best provide it to you. I am willing to try and explore all of your kinks, from age play to CNC, I am looking to explore any authoritative role that gets us deeper into our kinky needs and desires.

I also used to post solo themed nude stuff on reddit way back before onlyfans, would love to get back into erotic photography/film but only if we're both into/open to it, and only after we are very comfortable with each other.

Also none of my kinks are set in stone. If we have any overlap, I am 100% willing to play within our overlap and not push any boundaries, so don't feel like you if you aren't into enough for us to have a good time together!

Disclaimer

I am also dedicated to ensuring a safe and comfortable environment for both of us. I want discussions before, during and after about our desires, limits and expectations, along with aftercare to ensure that everything that transpired lived up to those expectations and stayed within limits. Whatever we do explore is at a slow and steady pace, with communication with words, safe words, or verbal/non-verbal queues to ensure there is no misunderstandings and everything is above board. Kinky will ideally be explored after we get comfortable enough with vanilla sex, and trust is truly earned and expected from both of us.

Happy hunting!

Daddy J