Hello there.

As us guys slowly learn that a two sentence post rarely captures the your attention, here is my try at doing a little more.

Allow myself to introduce ... myself.

Appearance - 42 years old, 5'8", dad bod and working on rolling that back. I'm clean shaven above the shoulders and nicely trimmed below. My teeth have gone through invisalign treatment. My feet likely need another pedicure. My closet has a few good suits that I enjoy wearing.

Work - I'm a ten year veteran in the field of personal finance with designations to prove it. I've helped families buy their first home, send their kids to university, fund their travel plans, prepare for retirement, enjoy retirement, and pass their estates on well. No, I'm not being ousted by robo-advisors. Yes, if you aren't interested in me, but are interested in the knowledge I have, you are welcome to send a few questions over.

Location - I live in Burlington, but have business around Toronto, Kitchener, Barrie, and Owen Sound which has me on the road often enough. If you are local, more can happen. If you are local to any of those other spots, we can make it work. If you aren't in any of the mentioned cities, do you know some people that need financial advice ... I could build myself a reason to have to be in your area.

Houston, we have a problem.

I'm in a ethical non-monogamous situation. My partner and I have a dead-bedroom situation and she is comfortable with that. We have talked through it and she understands my needs are different than hers. There are certain things we've agreed are on the table, and certain things are not. There is also limitations on the number of partners I am allowed to engage with so that she knows I'm not running around like my neighbours dog trying to hump everything it can hold. If we choose to meet up, she will know that I'm going to meet you. But she will respect your privacy and hopes you do the same. Feel free to ask questions on this point if it helps - some questions I will be happy to answer, some will be deflected. Two play styles that are not allowed ... PIV and oral for you if I can't grab a shower before seeing her.

My SFW fun - Hakuna Matata! It means no worries.

If you can't tell - movies are a favourite downtime activity of mine and I probably spend too much time watching them. This includes musicals like Hamilton, The Greatest Showman and now Wicked. Going to the gym has been a good change in me. I'm also out a few nights a week with volleyball and ultimate frisbee as well. The nerd in me comes out through my collection of Star Wars Lego that adorns my office wall. Card and board games are great fun as well ... and can lead to some interesting bets if you are up for that.

My NSFW fun - May the Force be with you.

My day job is a constant stream of informing clients the right choices to make and guiding them forward. I rarely have the energy to continue that mindset away from work. This means that I often prefer being in a femdom situation behind closed doors. Opposed to group thought on that title, this doesn't mean that you need to be bossy or mean or a bitch. This means that I want you to take the lead. It means you knowing what you want to do and having the confidence to tell me. It means that while I'm learning about you and acting in ways that will put a smile on your face, you are learning about my likes/desires and making choices that I'll appreciate. What do I enjoy specifically so you don't need to guess ...

• massages
• body worship
• ballbusting (ok you can be mean on this one)
• domestic servitude (I guess bossy works here)
• trampling (yeah this is another area you can be mean)
• cuddling
• not making decisions
• making sure you cum more than I do
• more that I can't think of

You complete me.

With the ENM situation I'm in, I'm not looking for a relationship, but rather an ability for each of us to find what is missing. Will we be friends, I hope so. Will I meet your family, that would be really weird.

Here's looking at you, kid.

Ideally I'm looking for someone between 30 - 50. It's more of a conversational connection choice than anything else. Outside of that age range and I'm lost on Taylor Swift or the newest hip medication.

Yes, physical appearance is something I'm interested in, but it's a lot more about how you carry yourself than what the scale says. Be confident in your smile. Be confident in your skin. Bonus points if you are confident in leather and heels. And I don't care about your height - I'm just as impressed with a 5'0" partner who can bring me to my knees as a 6'2" partner in heels that makes me feel like I'm already there.

So you're saying there's a chance!

So now you know a little bit about me. I think it's time for you to share a little bit about you. If you think guys want more than a "hey" from you, we do. Tell me something interesting. Tell me two truths and a lie. Tell me what passion pull you out of bed in the morning.