I’d like to treat you badly (consensually). It’s something I’d like to do over and over again but, I could be open to a one off depending on who asks.

The following is a big formatted wall of text, but it’s worth climbing. At least, if you’d like to be treated like a possession that I wouldn’t consider fragile. If that sounds like you, read away.

You can DM me or just follow/add me, I’ll get the memo and reach out.

Me:

Mid 20s white collar professional in tech.

On my off time I cook, workout a good bit and watch some anime. I try and get a good balance of doing things inside & outside of my house but winter is a bastard. I binge read books whenever I pickup something I like at the cost of sleep.

Tempted to buy another motorcycle in the new year.

I’m looking for women that want to consensually want to experience things that the average person might consider abusive. I have a warm and caring personality overall so I find the sharp contrast fun to say the least.

Guess my sport.

My profile has several pictures of me and more can be shared in a DM.

You:

An open minded woman looking to experience rough and abusive play, flexible to work with and physically fit/thin.

Bonus points if you're any of: an office worker, tall, ginger, or work a high stress job.

If you message me, include the following information: name, age, a description of what you look like, and what you do for a living or are studying in school.

First Date

Always in public, usually over a coffee/drinks or on a walk. Then we part ways and meet later if we both want in.

Before we meet, I will be asking you several questions about some relevant things. These will mainly include your limits, experience, fantasies, likes/dislikes, etc.

When we meet, we would be primarily talking more about the above. We will talk about everything discussed in DMs and make sure we are both on the same page. After that we go home and meet privately later, if the feeling is mutual.

You are more than welcome - and encouraged - to ask questions of me before and during our meet.

It’s all up for negotiation but; if your hard limit is a need for me, I’ll let you know and we won’t take it further.

Second Date

If we are both interested, we'll set up a day for us to meet.

We will then sit and have a drink, while we go over your limits again and walk you through what has been planned.

The first play session will be tamer than normal given that I have not learned your body yet. If you're a noob who doesn't yet know her limits and what she likes, we will spend time trying new things to figure it out.

What to expect during the first session

I tune to my partner’s wavelength. Whether that is gentle and affectionate or dark and what some might call abusive.

As a quick taste, here’s an unsorted list: CNC/rape play, somno, intox, bondage, humiliation/degradation, freeuse, impact play and more.

Verbally and mentally, I relish objectifying you, exposing your desperation and vulnerability and highlighting your insatiable craving for pleasure.

As much as I love to make you cum, I love watching you earn and beg for it even more. Nothing beats a woman desperate to cum.

I love being in control, and I expect my partners to give up control and do as told. If something is a limit, you will not be ordered to do that thing.

The content of the verbal abuse can be adjusted to your preference.

When we're done, you’ll feel used, like a set of holes whose sole purpose is to be used by me, and you'll be happy about it.

After that, we'll cuddle, chat, relax, I'll feed you and keep you warm, we'll shower, and end the night.

Aftercare will always be provided. Unless it's something you specifically do not want.

From here on out we play it by ear.