Honestly some marriages die super early, even right after the honeymoon phase :( some guys use sex/romance/intimacy as a weapon for control in HL women and some just don’t care anymore since they’re in a relationship now. So OP could’ve been in her late 20s and is experiencing this too, not necessarily 18

It’s a sad world, and you can never know until you start living with the person.

Nope, not persian.

I can’t say for sure if it’s some or most, but what I do know is that many marriages fail when the other stops putting effort towards the other or does something wrong.

I’m a huge romantic at heart too! And I always try to be the best version of myself so I have little to no flaws, but really,, marriage can be a gamble. I don’t mean to scare you, but it’s common that many people switch up or get too comfortable and stop trying in the relationship, and you can never know until you’ve lived with them.

As someone who’s been in a relationship, the best thing you can do for yourself is both, spend LOTS of time knowing the other person and just observe them for a few years,,, and do what you can to save that relationship before you decide to end it so you have absolutely no regrets

Ok idk why im giving relationship advice here but take it from me, someone who’s in a DB and now her about to be ex is living in another room and told it to my face that he doesn’t wanna live with me anymore because I ask too much (affection)