Dominant leaning with a focus on pleasure or pleasure dom as everyone is calling it these days.
6’1, 210, good shape, bearded and truly single. Live in my own place. Apparently that’s a thing these days too. Can verify no problem but Reddit has its share of 🥜 so a pic would be appreciated in a reply
I want to date someone who understands my leaning and natural inclination towards kink/b.dsm and that it is based on mutual respect and deep intimacy, where I don’t require a person I meet to follow the lifestyle but must understand that it is part of who and what I am. I enjoy control. I cannot deny or live/love without this part of me. It is part of who I am. I am also a sapiosexual. I need and enjoy deep communication on this and many other levels.
I’m experienced and have had relationships of this type and they tend to be intense and grow exponentially as opposed to vanilla dating on apps like hinge and bumble where everyone seems jaded and unhappy. I don’t enjoy using those apps at this point.
I understand and respect and even envy the ideals of poly/ENM lifestyles but in reality the execution leaves much to be desired. So I don’t subscribe to it. Lots of people just using it as an excuse to go out and get laid. So if this is you… let me know right away. It’s really on a case by case basis
I’m just looking for a woman who lives this or has always been curious. Many times it’s been women in control/power at work and the home in past relationships who want to just relinquish control to someone who knows how to guide and handle it.
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