Ladies - are you a strong, independent woman who don’t need no man? Except maybe only once in awhile and on your terms?
I’m a bi, average white dad-bod kind of guy in an ENM relationship and looking for a more FWB / casual dating. With winter coming up I would ideally enjoy finding a couch-potato girl as opposed to a “let’s go skiing and then go for a hike!” Girl.
This sub seems to be dominated by younger people (30 or under), so I’m specifically looking for people at least 30. So let me dispel your fears - I’ve got some gray hair, so if you do too, you’re probably in my age range. In fact, if the clock is 10pm and you want to go out to a club - don’t call me cause I’m probably already in bed!
“But what if he thinks I’m too fat?” Hey we’re all sort of fat. You’re probably cuter than you think.
“But what if he thinks I’m too ugly?” You’re almost definitely not. I don’t know who hurt you, and I’m sorry.
“But what if he thinks I’m too old?” As long as you aren’t asking to meet me to pick you up from your retirement home, you’re probably not!
“I hate going out and I’m poor!” Good news - so am I!
“Oh great another guy flooding the subreddit with a M4F post. Where are all the chicks?” Sorry. My bad.
If you’re comfortable in your own skin and sitting at home with your cat feeling bored or lonely, what have you got to lose? I quite enjoy actually talking to people and getting to know them a little before I agree to meeting them - I think it’s because I grew up in a time when meeting people online was new and people were convinced I was going to be murdered.
If my post made you laugh or at least roll your eyes, than mission accomplished. Think about how great I must be in actual conversations!
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