Why is everyone so insecure about themselves ? You are as perfect as you can be currently. Yes, over time, you'll be a different person. But, then you're a perfect version of yourself then.
Why is there a constant need to keep looking for someone better ? We gotta start somewhere. Yes there will be a few crappy dates, a few crappy people, but, aren't we losing out on what it could be for something that could not be ?
The oxymoronic themes that repeat :
Like the single life, perpetually looking for a partner. Live unattached, always seeking approval. Extreme independence, needs constant validation. Great chemistry, unbroken polygamy Ticks most boxes, invariably lying.
About me : just got out a gaslighting, cheating but a very raunchy & loving, if I can call it, well a relationship of 3 months.
Live Downtown T, have a lot of hobbies, picked up SUP this year & now very comfortable on a paddle board. Pretty active.
Taking a break from drinking, but don't mind being company, mixing drinks & cooking great food that goes with it.
Work is what good work can be. Pretty balanced with a few weeks here & there of being a little stressful.
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