Honestly. I think "anonymous" encounters get a bad rap. I think most of us see them as these detached, superficial, unfulfilling connections between two complete strangers... And we assume they'll be minimally satisfying, basically just a way to bridge a gap in sex in our lives.
But really, anonymity presents people a unique chance to be radically authentic and open with another human. It removes the pressure of social judgment which so often stops us from being vulnerable, sharing our unfiltered opinions, hopes, dreams and fantasies.
I'm visiting Toronto in October (Oct 2-4) for the first time ever. I have no friends, no family, no coworkers there. I'll be a complete stranger in the biggest city in Canada. I'd love to capitalize on that anonymity to find someone(s) (any and all genders) to connect with authentically.
Let's skip the names, skip the "what do you do for work", skip meeting each other's parents or siblings or friends... And go right to questions like, "when's the last time you cried and why?", "What's the one fantasy you've never been able to admit to anyone" and "what was your biggest, most embarrassing sex-fail". If the vibes are right we can meet up and spend a great night together... Then go our seperate ways and carry on with the rest of our lives.
Check my post history if you want to know more about me.
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