Yes, many will say it is a kink, there is the right to it, yada yada.
But I personally find concerning the amount of postings that I read that are "I, me and myself". Unless you are masturbating, sex is a thing of 2 (or more). I do get that there are people enjoying roles of dominance and all those stories you want to build up, but I feel that I read here too many people that basically dehumanize the other side.
With man, I see it less, surprisingly. But still, read tons of post only about their pleasure, and when you read them, well... Sounds more like they are going to rape you, rather than having sex.
Women are much more direct. Demanding "pampering", and saying that want their pussy eaten, BUT DON'T EVEN THINK OF RECIPROCATION. And while I do not eat a girl just expecting that later she does me, I do believe we both should get pleasure. Sure, there are guys who enjoy eating pussies, but personally, I would run away from any person that straight forward is telling you that wants to use you, since it sounds like quite a narcissistic person.
And yes, I know that dominatrix do exist, but I think that is not the point with many of this posts. Just my thoughts
Sounds like you want a girlfriend and not a stranger online to have sex with
Itâs only one sided if you have sex with someone whoâs asking for things you donât want to do. So thatâs your choice lol, find someone else. Sex isnât a job unless youâre a sex worker, go hire one and pay well enough to get what you like.
You posted talking about the women who ask to be pampered and say they wanna do nothing in return, and now youâre talking about women who âlie and leave you with blue ballsâ . Youâre inconsistent and sound like an incel.
I couldâve phrased it differently for sure, whatâs equal pleasure to some is not to others. If a guy wanted me to give him a bj during a ONS to me thatâs not equal pleasure because the displeasure itâll give me will negate the overall pleasure. But to another woman itâs not sex without giving a bj! I think if you engage in sex you should enjoy it.
I just mean why does he feel entitled to what he sees as âequal sexâ from women who are looking for different things than him
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Ok but why do you feel entitled to equal pleasure? I think itâs annoying that men just want to have sex but donât want to commit, but Iâm not entitled to their love just because I want it.
The women who are posting âdemanding pamperingâ as you put it, arenât demanding anything from you. Theyâre posting what they want in hopes someone wants to give it to them. If you donât want that then go out and find what you want, or find out what to do to best get what you want. Men and women pursue sexual encounters differently to each other with different motivations. Not sure whatâs hard to understand