hii! :3 recently i’ve been processing a really tough breakup, and part of what feels missing from me is a space to be able to be vulnerable and intimate and caring and feel cared for :,) i really miss slow and soft kisses, being caressed gently, and really intimate and wholesome things like that which may or or may not lead to more :,))

so, i’m not looking to get into another relationship, but i’d really love to meet some new people and maybe make a friend! not just to get in bed, but a good friend to chat with about everyday stuff, to get a bit nerdy with, to be me with — maybe take a walk, grab some coffee, go shopping etc., and then additionally to maybe find some of that physical intimacy and and softness that i’ve been craving :,)

(my relationship with sex is a bit strange in that — i’d love to explain more, but in short that’s the reason why emotional intimacy and
aftercare are so important to me even if i want to explore it in a more casual setting)

so a bit about me! i’m east asian with long hair, bi, cis-ish amab, and bi (all genders welcome to respond!) i’m 5’10 with an average build, a bit (a lot) neurodivergent, and a massive nerd :D nominally i am a bio student but my passions lie in the arts — i love classical music (ask me about sibelius, beethoven, tchaikovsky, rachmaninoff!) and literature (i have so many books on my reading list 😭) to give you a sense of who i am, i’ve been listening to arctic monkeys’ the car album on repeat lately but am also a regular mitski and hozier enjoyer :) i also listen to the strokes a bit and some chinese music :D i recently watched fleabag twice and there are several uk national theatre productions i REALLY want to watch :D and i have so many little hobbies and strange facts :DD also i love love love cats :33 and coffee and tea! and SOUP! (and occasionally wine too!)

and a bit about who I’m looking for: someone who maybe has similar interests, someone who’s genuine, not afraid to get a bit nerdy & can match my energy a bit :D someone who’s also interested in being friends but also having intimacy, and who enjoys being genuine & wholesome and not just to fuck then leave :) hopefully someone who’s clean & hygienic, around my age (18-23), respectful, and maybe just wants to try to be a bit happier than their brain does :,))

i’d love to get to know you! if you’re interested send me a bit about yourself and maybe we can see if we click :)