I believe this post should never even exist to begin with, but I hope this helps to improve the overall quality of the sub. I am not an Almighty thing of the sub, and I am searching for a partner myself. But I simply see many people that, probably, are absolutely clueless of the way they look like. So here are a few trends:

I am a virgin and I need help: No, please, stop this. Being virgin is not a disease, you are not dying. You don't "need help", your problem is not your "v-card", but your attitude. Don't try to get sex out of pity, have some more self esteem and pride. And don't start blaming the women in your life. Girls want to have some fun, not to deliver some charity.

I am super nice, will respect you, worship...: nope you are not respectful, you are a soy boy. There is a middle point between being an asshole who just sees a chunk of meat in a woman, and someone who looks afraid of touching her hand without permission. Respect is important, for sure. But in a relationship (I am not even talking about love, but human interaction) you should both be at the same level, seeing each other face to face. Don't kneel from the start. Ppl

I am going to fulfill my darkest fantasies using you: I mean, what can I even say... While there might be some actually interested in that, your chances to get to her are slim. Even less if you add that she needs to be interested in you. And aside of the whole "use as a fleshlight" topic, there is something else very important; TRUST. Capital letters, since it is VERY IMPORTANT. For us, men, it is not even remotely as scary as it is for women to go on blind dates. We do not care much. For them, it is a guy from reddit (so, let's face if, we are likely weirdos if we are dating here). With someone they don't really know. There are way too many stories of dissapearing, human trafficking, rapes... You really think she is just going to get in your car and let you hand cuff her to your bed? That kind of thing requires a lot of trust, or quite a ballsy lady.

I am X, age Y, and my cock is...: ok. I get that it is a sex-oriented sub, but still. Cock sizes are quite unreliable. First, because masculine pride, many will lie saying they are bigger than they really are. Magically, everyone on this sub is atleast 8". There is also the fact that some measure from the base, and some from almost the ass. Also, apply "real world logic". Would you approach a girl in a bar, and mention your cock's size in your introduction. I hope you don't. And it doesn't work in here, either. If they wish to know, they will ask. Same for Dick pics. Only if they ask you first. If you get horny by seeing a nude, doesn't mean it works the other way around . Specially, if unrequested.

As a side note, trap post that I keep seeing "DM sent": -Young girl who wants an older guy to teach her. Generally, virgins. Come on, post that looks like prey are the actual predators, and likely rip you off. Although I would say (since I have seen them), that if you are 40 and try to go after an 18yo, you deserve to get scammed. -I want to be your cum slut. No, they don't . If they want to meet a guy, it is as easy as saying they are female, and their inbox will explode. They don't need to act like a porn actress. -lets talk in this outside platform: another scam. You will see Kik and telegram; usually there is a bot there talking to you. IG? They will try to "sext", get a face and dick pic, then extort you, since with the IG comes your contact circle, such as friends and family.

And I know all of this will keep happening, but atleast, I tried