I'm 42, living in northern York Region. I'm in an open relationship and looking for an FWB arrangement, a balance between friendly conversation and getting to know each other as people and sharing some orgasms. We'd start online, but I'm open to moving to voice or video conversations if we connect well. Meeting up, perhaps regularly, is on the table down the road too, but not something I'm going to rush into. If we get there, know that I'm not going to be able to host, but I'm happy to come to you.

I'm hoping to find a kind, positive person who's equal parts funny, intelligent, and sexual, someone who has interests and passions and likes to talk about them and share them. Hopefully you're a night owl like me; I've got a lot of time to commuunicate throughout the day and evening but a lot of my alone time is after 11 PM. Appearance is secondary to me; I'm open to someone of any body type and race. We'll probably relate best if our ages are somewhat similar, and please don't message me if you're not at least in your mid-20's, but I don't have a set age range in mind besides that. If you think we'd be a good fit, let's talk.

Some more about me:

I'm a plus-size guy. If that's not something you're into, let's not waste each other's time

I work in tech

My main social activity right now is playing board games, but I'm also hoping to join a band soon (I play keyboards). If you're also musical or love board games, we'll probably be a great fit

Other interests include video games (want to game together?), trivia, museums, listening to music, and going to live shows.

My musical tastes are VERY diverse. I go to the orchestra and jazz shows, but also have seen artists like the Smashing Pumpkins, The Offspring, Depeche Mode, and Duran Duran in the past couple years. Want to share music recommendations?

I love learning new things and trying new things. Tell me what's interesting in your life, what you're passionate about. I'll at least be excited with you, if not join in

I'm a switch, fairly kinky, and love to please. Orgasms are best when shared, and I love creating anticipation and buildup