So as the title says I'm 38 and want to make some friends of the opposite sex.

I am very easy to get along with and usually pretty witty and can throw a joke together pretty quick.

"Surely you're just looking for a hook-up". I promise I am not. What I'm looking for is to hangout and force myself out of this shy/awkward shell I've been stuck in for a long time. And I personally feel (for me) the best way to go about that is to have a woman to hangout with and talk to who will make me feel a little nervous and help to force me out of my shell.

Somethings I like: I am a gamer but not the type to hold myself up and ignore the people around me. Interactions with my friends always comes first.

I'm a great listener and don't mind being vented at when people need to blow off some steam or are feeling down.

I do try to make it to the gym as I am actively on a weight loss journey (covid times really sucked) and the effort I have put in over the last 9 months has been amazing. Now being summer I tend to do more outside activities like beaches, Blue Jays games, concerts, or just swimming in the pool where I live.

3 words people often describe me as: caring, witty, reliable.

Send me a chat message if you want to talk and we can start it there.