hi! i’m [redacted], and i’m 19m :)

the past few months have been tough for me, especially because of a difficult breakup (and ensuing departure from my friend group) so i’ve just been really lonely recently :,) also i got drunk last night and watched fleabag so the emotions are still running 😭 so now im looking for some tenderness and connection :,)

i’m not looking for a relationship right now for various reasons. what i am looking for is someone who can be a close friend — hang out together, visit cafes, go on walks, text & chat about life — someone that i can connect with :) as well, i’d like someone that i can share the tenderness of being kissed passionately, the openness of being able to explore and try new things in bed without having to worry about “getting it right”, and the intimacy of being held close, skin-to-skin, and making each other feel good :) just to feel loved etc. :,)

a bit about myself: i’m 19, amab, east asian, 5’10 with relatively long hair. i’m bi, a student, and a huge lit nerd and classical music nerd :3 i’m ddf but drink sometimes & occasionally do edibles (but only accompanied by close friends), and i love coffee, wine, cocktails, computers, and trinkets :) (i don’t smoke for personal reasons) my music taste is along the lines of mitski, hozier, arctic monkeys, and beyond (iykyk!)

a bit about who i’m looking for: someone around my age, (so around 18-21) who i connect with :D i’m bi but tend to connect better with women / more feminine or androgynous people :,) please be clean and reasonably hygienic (bare minimum lol) i’m not asking for exclusivity but i’d appreciate communication both for health and safety but also bc that’s the kind of open, supportive friendship that i’m looking for :) i’d love to get to know you so tell me a bit about yourself, your passions/hobbies, and maybe send a SFW picture first!

if you’re interested, i’d really like to form this connection with you :) i’m not in a rush to get into the nsfw things if you’d like to take some time, although i love trying new things if you are :D and i’d just like to get to know some people and make some good friends :) let me know if you’re interested, and maybe take a chance on me ? :]