Look, I know this is Reddit but I got very close to the man of my dreams in the fall and I met him here. So I'm taking the stance that a long shot is still a shot 🤷🏾‍♀️

About me:

I've been through a lot more life than my 39 years and and I'm due for a win. Every partner I've ever had has told me how great I am and tried to stay in my life. I've been almost there but I'm looking for more than almost.

I'm complex with many layers. I'm an avid reader with a constantly curious mind. I laugh easily and often but also feel deeply and have an endless capacity for empathy.

I'm very into the NBA. I can watch other sports too, but basketball is the only one I'll watch by myself, yelling at the TV the whole time. (The Raptors are gonna be fine!)

I'm a creative person who is building a knitwear design business having pivoted my career after developing a pain condition.

I love to sing. Would be fun to spend time sirh someone who is also musical. (Karaoke or open mic night, anyone?) Check out the songs I can and am learning to sing. https://spotify.link/H9sI6sLt8Jb

I'm an excellent cook and I'd love to meet someone to cook with. Close quarters working together in the kitchen has always sounded delicious to me.

I'm nerdy AF. Like, Vulcan calligraphy tattoo on my back, nerdy. Nintendo Switch is my console of choice. (I can't wait for the new Assassins Creed and Test Drive Unlimited). I enjoy board games and Euchre for cards.

I'm looking for a man with intelligence and sophistication. Someone kind with a great smile. Someone who will enjoy receiving random posts from my custom feed (https://reddit.com/user/jadefox1785/m/satisfying/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) and who is excited to discuss any random things that pop into our minds.

I love to spend a day home in comfy clothes but I also like to get a bit dressed up from time to time.

I'm 5'8" so I do have a preference for taller guys. People tend to guess my age closer to 30 than 40 and I'm very curvy. I suspect that my match is older than me but I do believe that age can be just a number.

I currently live in Sarnia but, frankly, the guys out here just don't suit me. I'm a city girl and my guy is a city guy. My schedule is my own and I visit the GTA regularly. Ideally, we'd start with lots of texting and calls since I'm looking for a mental connection that, historically, has proven more illusive than the much easier physical connection.

If you've made it this far, maybe we should chat. Please DM me with enough to let me know you can keep up 😉