Not looking for sex - Just looking to give spanking/impact play with some aftercare. I’m sadistic by nature so looking for a masochist.

About me: Hi, I’m a 35 year-old guy, 5ft6, dad bod/average weight, located in Toronto. I have a typical corporate job, social commitments that keep me busy, enjoy eating out, love dogs, and love gaming. I’m not looking to change any part of my typical lifestyle. Sexually speaking, I have explored a few kinks over the years which I enjoy but I also enjoy vanilla just as much. I lean more towards dominant/sadistic but I’m not a “dom” or a “daddy”; I rather just enjoy connecting with play partners to indulge in these kinks in a safe way.

What I’m looking for: I’m not looking to be someone’s long-term dom/daddy and definitely not looking for any emotional attachment at this moment. I’m simply just looking for an occasional play partner for sessions of impact play. So if you enjoy being spanked/slapped, we’re probably a good match. While this is kinky, I’m not currently looking for sex. My clothes will not come off and whether your clothes come off or not is entirely your preference. I do have other kinks related to pain/degradation/humiliation which I’m also happy to explore. If you’re a sub who leans more masochistic, or if you simply want to get spanked or slapped for any reason whatsoever, let’s connect and chat about preferences/limits.

You: I prefer people my age (30 ) but I’m okay with anyone over 20. The older, the better. I’m also open to playing with submissive couples. I’m not picky about body types or backgrounds. It would be great if you have some experience with this prior, but if not, we can start slow and build.

I'd like to chat on Reddit first. If there's alignment on what we want, then meet for coffee first. Then play.

Please include a bit of info about yourself if you reach out.