What I'm Looking For 🔍

Hi there! Pretend this is a more serious place like r4rToronto_Clean for a sec and oh look, while browsing around there you've stumbled upon me, a nerdy soft boi seeking ppl to date, for what could lead to a monogamous long term relationship. 🥰 Dating apps get kinda old so I post here occasionally looking for genuine people out there that I'd click with.

I'm Scott, a 27 year old guy in the Durham region, and a go train ride away from actual Toronto. At first I'd ideally want a virtual date playing a game or watching something over a video call to see if we click and are both legit. Afterwards we can meet in person in Toronto or whatever place works best.

In more memey and sappy terms I would call myself a guy with laid back and cute cat boy energy. :3 Hold me in your arms, keep me safe, and I'll do the same for you with the exchange of kisses, cuddles, and headpats. ♥ If you're seeking a slightly socially awkward, nerdy, and cute bf to watch stuff or game with, I might be the guy for you.

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About Me

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Appearance:

• 5'8, Thin, White, Dark blue eyes (with glasses on when going out), Medium length hair waiting for someone to run their fingers through it :)
• Here's a couple cute/awkward/goofy selfies.
• I'm somewhat thin (a bit under 130 lbs last I checked) though I still eat a lot and do a moderate bit of exercise
• I also have a somewhat deep voice

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Main Hobbies:

• Gaming especially with roguelikes, sandbox games, jrpgs, and a lot of nintendo stuff
  • It's mostly been me into Lethal Company lately, replaying og FF7, and I'm looking forward to the TTYD remake
• Watching TV shows, namely animated stuff or anime
  • Lately I've been watching Sailor Moon, The Boys, and got super into Hazbin Hotel
• Occasionally reading manga
• Developing indie games
• Daily walks (occasionally down to hike on a trail)

I'm a nerdy weeb I guess lol. I list specific stuff near the end of this post.

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Occupation: Typically a Mobile & Web Developer (though mass layoffs happened so I'm job searching atm)

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Compatibility Things

My Preferred Age Range: Let's go for an range of 21-33? The closer to 27 the better.

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My Type:

• I most often fall for the nerdy type of girls or tomboys

• Not crazy picky physically as long as you are decently healthy (a bit underweight or a bit overweight should be fine)

• Tall or smol, all heights are welcome!

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Your Type: A soft boy that's also a mix of nerdy, laid back, and memey I'd hope. :)

I'd also hope you're cool with sharing some photos early on like I did above. Let me see your pretty face. 🥰

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Pets: I think I'm more a cat person. My family has 3 lovely black cats. We also used to have 2 cute dogs, so doggos can be great too.

No Kids: I don't want kids. Child free life all the way.

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Location:

• Ontario, Canada (Durham Region and about 1 hour on the go train away from Toronto)
• If you're not in the GTA but still in Ontario that can work too
• Also just saying in the long run I don't intend to ever move out of Canada, but I'm open to relocating within Canada if needed one day.

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Libido / Intimacy:

• In case it matters to someone, I have a libido that I'd act on like once a week?
• Not directly libido related but I got pelvic floor problems that make it a bit harder than usual to orgasm, and I also might have a slight bit of soreness after one. I still do it, it's just something I got to work around with physiotherapy and other means.
• I got a few kinks but nothing too crazy. Stuff like feet, abs, lite bondage, gentle femdom, or just playful possessiveness. I wouldn't call myself kink crazy but I'm willing to explore different stuff ;)

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List Of Interests 🤓

Shared hobbies are how I fall for someone pretty quickly. I'm a fully fledged redditor nerd™ that wants someone who would either call themselves a gamer, an animation lover, a frequent enjoyer of anime/manga, or all of the above? ;)

I'm not looking for a perfect overlap here, but if you find yourself nerding out to these kinds of things we might be a pretty good fit:

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TV Shows:

• Animated Plot Driven: Steven Universe, Bojack Horseman, The Owl House🦉, Infinity Train, Final Space, Amphibia, The Dragon Prince, ATLA, Gravity Falls, Adventure Time, Hazbin Hotel
• Animated Comedies: Rick and Morty, Futurama, Spongebob, DHMIS
• Web Series: RWBY, Digital Circus
• Live Action: The Umbrella Academy, The Mandalorian, The Boys

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Gaming:

• Nintendo: Mario, Zelda, Kirby, Animal Crossing, Smash Bros, Fire Emblem, Metroid, Pikmin
• Platformers: Mega Man, Sonic
• Jrpgs: Final Fantasy, Deltarune, Bravely Default, Paper Mario, Earthbound/Mother
• Sand-Box: Minecraft, Terraria
• Roguelikes: The Binding of Isaac, Faster Than Light, Risk Of Rain 2
• FPS: Doom, Borderlands, any kind of co-op stuff. Competitive stuff I'm never too invested in.
• Survival Horror: Resident Evil, Dead By Daylight, Lethal Company
• Battle Royale: Falls Guys (if that even counts lol)
• MMOs: Don't play them much anymore but as a kid I played a lot of Toontown, Roblox, Spiral Knights, Runescape, etc.

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Anime / Manga:

• Anime: Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball, FMA (2003 & Brotherhood), Death Note, Cowboy Bebop, Spy x Family, Chainsaw Man, Jujutsu Kaisen, Sailor Moon, Studio Ghibli Films
• Manga: One Piece, Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball Super
• Stuff I Want To Watch/Read: Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Naruto, Evangelion

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Other Random Interests:

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• Movies: A lot of Pixar, Terminator, Alien, Blade Runner, Star Wars, Bat Man, Spider Man (Into The Spiderverse especially)
• Music: EDM, Vaporwave, Rock, Metal, OSTs of games & shows
• Memes: Send memes pls
• Outdoorsy Stuff: As I said I walk a lot. I'd be down to try hiking or something for those into it.

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TLDR Of Who I'm Looking For 🔍

• Someone seeking a long term monogamous relationship, no hookups
• Preferably you're in the age range of 21-33
• You have a very strong interest in either gaming, animated shows, anime/manga, or all the above :3
• You're in Ontario and going to be in Canada in the long run
• You don't want kids
• I wouldn't mind sharing selfies to start if you're comfortable with that
• Looking for genuine responses that are more than a hi.

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Ty for reading my wall of bullet points, or at least those last few ones. If this catches your eye then now's your chance to slide into my DMs and claim me. ;) ♥ ✨I'd prefer to start with reddit chat and afterwards I usually use Discord. You can introduce yourself with stuff such as a pic of yourself, any shared or unique interests, and what you're looking for. Or just pile on a huge list of game, show, or anime recs if you want lol.