Hi there. Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but you're worth it.

TLDR: I'm an experienced, creative, active Dom looking for a local sub who is equally passionate in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding ethical kinky relationship. Let's 1 each other!

About me

Physically - I'm 24, single, black hair, brown eyes, (177 cm and currently swinging between 185-200 lbs), non-smoker/drinker, clean/DDF. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

Personality - I'm a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I've been described as playful, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation.

Interests - Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (Monster [2004], Mr. Nobody, Gattaca, Donnie Darko, La Piscine, Scarface, What’s Eating Gilbert Grape, Original Sin to name a few), Music, Art (Leonardo Da Vinci, Fernando Fernandez, Frank Miller etc) inspiring me into writing/drawing some pretty stupid comics, Material/Theoretical Sciences, Books, Writing, Health (mental physical), Bodybuilding/Strength training, Cooking (although I am far from good at it xD. One day I will cook close to as good as my Mother does), have pretty activistic/progressive ideas on social issues (I'm generally on the left side of the spectrum) and love to swim or the idea of me swimming - here’s to the hope that I will learn it practically one day too lol. Hopefully we share a few interests already.

Who and what I'm looking for

Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic. This lifestyle is meant to make us into the best versions of ourselves.

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available.

I'm genuinely open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).

Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to PM me!

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. <3

The kinky stuff

Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for the past several years. In that time, I've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDlg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to us. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a real relationship. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

My kinks - Include impact play, hypnosis, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among others...

Voilà.