Hey all,
Here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rtoronto/s/c41x30sKtj
Let me start by saying I remain hopeful. If my post resonates with you, Iâd love to hear from you. DDF, single, athletic, professional, private.
For those curious about the âresults,â here they are in a story:
I made the post, and to my surprise, a healthy number of women reached out. - the smallest percentage (~10-15%) consistent of women expressing an interest in a quick encounter. Each requested a picture (pleasantly surprised to receive a picture first), followed by 2-3 messages and a want to connect. Not a single one followed through. - with 20-30% of women: there was not (enough?) mutual attraction (either me, them, or both). Fortunately, each exchange was respectful. BUT: as I said to them, Iâll repeat again to women reading this: stop with the self-deprecation. - maybe 20-30% of women couldnât keep the conversation going past 4 messages / lost interest or werenât willing to go through with a meet (happy to respect boundaries) - of the remainder⌠Iâm still talking to 1-2. We donât seem to have any sense of urgency.
Some general irony: some women were vocal about âwantingâ to get together or âwanting to get to know basic things about each otherâ ⌠yet they put little effort into the conversation by asking few (if any) questionsâexactly what us âgood menâ want: a woman to starfish a conversation.
I met with one woman. Success? Nope. She started crying (clearly hadnât revealed emotional turmoil) in a nearly empty cafe, and I defaulted to consoling her. Eventually, she felt better. Thanked me, apologized (though I wasnât upset about it), and we parted ways.
My numbers may seem a little funny because I have a tendency of deleting messages rather quickly if it leads to nowhere.
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