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34M4F - Giving it another go, with the same post (explained)
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HiddenLinks is a male age 34 looking for a female in Toronto
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Hey all,

Here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/r4rtoronto/s/c41x30sKtj

Let me start by saying I remain hopeful. If my post resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. DDF, single, athletic, professional, private.

For those curious about the ‘results,’ here they are in a story:

I made the post, and to my surprise, a healthy number of women reached out. - the smallest percentage (~10-15%) consistent of women expressing an interest in a quick encounter. Each requested a picture (pleasantly surprised to receive a picture first), followed by 2-3 messages and a want to connect. Not a single one followed through. - with 20-30% of women: there was not (enough?) mutual attraction (either me, them, or both). Fortunately, each exchange was respectful. BUT: as I said to them, I’ll repeat again to women reading this: stop with the self-deprecation. - maybe 20-30% of women couldn’t keep the conversation going past 4 messages / lost interest or weren’t willing to go through with a meet (happy to respect boundaries) - of the remainder… I’m still talking to 1-2. We don’t seem to have any sense of urgency.

Some general irony: some women were vocal about “wanting” to get together or “wanting to get to know basic things about each other” … yet they put little effort into the conversation by asking few (if any) questions—exactly what us ‘good men’ want: a woman to starfish a conversation.

I met with one woman. Success? Nope. She started crying (clearly hadn’t revealed emotional turmoil) in a nearly empty cafe, and I defaulted to consoling her. Eventually, she felt better. Thanked me, apologized (though I wasn’t upset about it), and we parted ways.

My numbers may seem a little funny because I have a tendency of deleting messages rather quickly if it leads to nowhere.

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