Boys there a few things I've noticed about the culture on this subreddit I'd like to shine a light on.

This isn't an incel style culture hating post.

This isn't a woman hating post either.

It's just.....OK so I'll start here.

It's no secret to anyone who spends even a minute in here that there is a dramatic imbalance in m/f ratio. So men are generally at a 'disadvantage' based purely on a number. That's not why I'm here, nor is it something that needs light shon on it.

It's the condition that ratio has set. My personal experience has been overwhelmingly positive here as I've made several great friends and had my share of memorable experiences with some truly lovely women.

But. I've also had some shockingly toxic experiences as well.

There are several women on this sub(I won't guess how many) that just absolutely hate men. This place is a playground for a man hater. So many easy targets and they are so incredibly vulnerable to it.

Boys. You really need to check yourselves and make sure you have rationally weighed the pros and cons of connecting with someone who is of that mindset. The things that have been asked of me, the rudeness, the shortness, the double standards.

Self respect is a non renewable resource my dudes. Please Please please make sure you have your integrity in check, and you are effectively able to identify when it is under attack. There isn't a single woman on earth that is worth lowering yourself to begging someone who sees you as subhuman for a little piece of puss.

It may seem worth it in the moment. You may think noone will even know you stooped.

But you will. You'll have to live with that.

In my experience one of the things that a majority of women like in a man IS integrity. If you simply walk away from those toxic responses and posts, you increase your integrity 10 fold. You instantly become more attractive.

Please boys. Don't foster this environment where toxic women are allowed to persistently feed off your insecurities and fleeting desires. Stand up, chest out. Have standards for how you allow yourself to be spoken to and hence treated. You may lose out on 1 toxic woman, but you will be opening the doors to all the good apples.

Good luck out here my dudes, you got this!!!