First of all, apologies if 'older ladies' is not the proper term. Cougar/MILF/Stacy's mom/aged like fine wine/Miss, pick one of the above. In my own dating history, 2 gals have been the same age and 1 a couple of years older. I'd like to think of myself as pretty normal with the exception that I'm haunted by a certain high school teacher. She had just the sweetest smile and a foxy, refined demeanor. You know, the 'je ne sais quoi.' She coached the boy's swim team and was recently divorced. I knew even less about women back then than I do now but she most definitely singled 17-year old me out for favoritism that bordered on nepotism. Regrettably, nothing happened beyond a few glances that I knew she saw. And might've even encouraged.
This brings me to my current predicament. My current boss is a wonderful lady. Nouveau riche in her outfits but still a heart of gold beneath. Mother to 2 boys but still a trim figure to die for. Competent beyond doubt. Husband cheated when she was on a business trip. They are divorced in all but name. Lately she's been sharing and confiding in me things that are too personal. I don't want to dip my pen in the company ink. But damn it I'm trying to redirect this energy somewhere.
I'm not looking for a sugar mama, I'll pay for the first date. I'm just looking to go on a nice traditional candlelight dinner with you. If our age difference causes people to stare, I say let them stare ;).
I am 5'11.5 barefoot, 188.8 lbs. Asian descent. Swam and did rowing in uni. IMNSHO I'd rate myself 8/10 facially. I'm ready to swap pictures after chatting and I am ready to jump through some hoops.
Alright writing this was therapeutic. Doesn't make me any less serious about meeting up.
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