(sorry, reposting because I didn't tag this properly. Note new instructions)

I'm a 21 year old Asian girl looking for someone to help live out my fantasy.
I'm looking for strong men older than me and under 35 years old that have a strong dominant personality and can handle and overpower a ~50kg girl. Only the roughest sex satisfies me, so please be able to handle that. You might also not be the first of the night, so you must be ok with sloppy seconds.
In your intro please don't mention anything physical about you: body/age/race/face/cock size/etc - I don't want to know, unless I ask about it. Tell me about your experience in CNC and include the word "bananas" so I know you're capable of following instructions. I'm not interested in getting to know anyone, build relationships or friendships. This will most likely be a one time thing.
I'll host in downtown Toronto, but please be flexible with your schedule: this could happen Fridays anytime from like 8pm to 2am.

Hard limits:
- scat, pee, anal, gore, permanent and semi-permanent marks (including burns, bruising, hickys), age play, anything more than medium pain
This is how I envision the logistics:
- we chat and get to know each other (chat on reddit and voice calls) and talk about limits and kinks
- send verification and gov ID to my friend, and recent STD test results if you're going bare (sorry, I don't want to know anything physical about you, but I still need to be concerned for my safety)
- she'll provide you address and condo entry instructions once we agree on a date/time
- enter my condo, put on a mask (or I'll be blindfolded.. idk tdb), find me in the bedroom, verbally agree to safewords, then begin
- laptop will be in my room on a call with my friend to ensure rules/safewords are followed (no video, not recorded)

Rules
- respect my safe words, and ensure I'm able to safe word (ex. no strong choking, gagging)
- stay out of the other rooms at the condo, don't go through my stuff, etc.
- don't bring your own toys or other equipment
- don't stay past your allocated time
If my friend suspects any rule being broken, she'll call for help :)

Sorry for the complexity but I can't think of any other way to address some of the safety concerns I'm having. I 100% trust my friend - we've been friends for years and have talked about this for a while. I understand the hesitancy for sharing ID but I can't think of any better deterrent against breaking rules so suggestions and improvements are always welcome.