Intro 👋

Hi there! You've caught one nerdy introverted boi seeking a long term relationship (a monogamous one). I'm trying to post here occasionally since r4rToronto_Clean is barely used and dating apps are kinda bad. Maybe out of the thousands of people in this hookup place I can find the 1% of genuine relationship seekers out there? 🥺

I'm Scott, a 26 year old guy in the Durham region, and a go train ride away from actual Toronto. I'd love to develop a connection with someone here that could lead to a long term relationship. At first I'd want to spend time virtually over a video call or two to see if we click and are both genuinely interested in each other, then afterwards we can meet in person as well.

In more memey and sappy terms I would call myself a guy with shy but cute cat boy energy. :3 Hold me in your arms, keep me safe, and I'll do the same for you with the exchange of kisses, cuddles, and headpats. ♥ If you're seeking a cute bf to watch stuff or game with I might be the guy for you.

This is going to be a little long but I use fancy categorized sections and also some pics are included! Plus there's a tldr summary in bullet points at the end.

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About Me

Occupation: Mobile & Web Developer (It's remote!)

My Preferred Age Range: Let's go for an range of 20-32? The closer to 26 the better.

Appearance: 5'8, Thin, White, Dark blue eyes with glasses when going out, Medium-long length hair waiting for someone to run their fingers through it.

Here's a couple sfw selfies.

I'm fairly skinny (a bit over 120 lbs last I checked) even if I eat a lot because of metabolism? I still try and do a moderate bit of exercise for the sake of my body and gaining a teeny tiny bit of muscle.

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Main Hobbies: Game Development, Gaming, Watching TV Shows/Anime/Movies, Reading Manga

I'm a gamer and a bit of a weeb lol. I mention these more just a bit below.

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My Type: A nerdy girl preferably. My only physical type is someone with a decently healthy weight. By "decently " I mean if you're slightly underweight like me or a tiny bit overweight that's perfectly fine. I love both feminine and tomboyish types of woman. All heights are welcome too.

Your Type: Skinny, nerdy, kinda stoic, memey, and slightly awkward introverted guys I'd hope. :)

I'd also hope you're cool with sharing some photos of each other early on. If not down for that immediately then you can describe your appearance. Physical attraction is only one piece of the puzzle but it'd be nice if there's at least a little of it for both people.

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Pets: I think I'm more a cat person. My family has 3 lovely black cats. We also used to have 2 cute dogs, so doggos can be great too.

No Kids: I don't want kids. Child free life all the way.

Location: Durham Region (About 1 hour on the go train away from Toronto)

I can't host as I don't live in my own apartment just yet but I might in a couple months from now. Also just saying in the long run I don't intend to ever move out of Canada, but I'm open to relocating within Canada if needed one day.

Sexual Stuff

Libido: Average I guess? I wouldn't say high because I used to have really bad pelvic floor problems. A left over thing from that is my muscles near the pelvis flare up and are in mild pain for a good while after an orgasm 😓. It sucks but I still do have the libido to get me to orgasm at least like once a week. I would obviously communicate the best ways to deal with it, but just putting it out there for now.

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Kinks: Feet, Bondage, Role Reversal / Extra Gentle Femdom

I'm not all that sexually experienced in general and would say I'm indifferent to finding a kinky person. With that said my brain blatantly is turned on by feet more easily than other things lol. I'm also into RR and GFD would make me lean submissive but I could be a switch.

Remember I'm not looking for hookups so don't expect me to be dtf instantly despite this kink talk. :P

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Interests In Detail 🤓

Hobbies are super important for a relationship connection to develop for me. At the risk of sounding like a typical redditor nerd™ I want someone who would either call themselves a gamer, an animation lover, a frequent enjoyer of anime/manga, or all of the above? ;)

Quality time is perhaps my most important love language. I want the kind of partner who happens to be a best friend that I'm also deeply in love with. ♥ Obviously we don't need to be one to one with everything but a general overlap in some interests is nice. Hearing someone talk about something they're passionate about is always lovely too.

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TV Shows:

I love any kind of show that's story driven with a healthy mix of drama and comedy. I gravitate towards animation more as the past decade seems to have a lot more serialized stuff that older people can enjoy. Of course I can enjoy live action stuff out there as well.

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• Animated Plot Driven: Steven Universe, Bojack Horseman, The Owl House🦉, Infinity Train, Final Space, Amphibia, The Dragon Prince, ATLA, Gravity Falls, Adventure Time (currently watching)
• Animated Comedies: Rick and Morty, Futurama, Spongebob, DHMIS
• Web Series: RWBY, Helluva Boss
• Live Action: The Umbrella Academy, The Mandalorian

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Gaming:

I game a good bit on Switch or PC with a variety of games (I particularly like platformers, action adventure, sandbox games, and jrpgs). I enjoy like 90% of Nintendo games out there so if you happen to be into any of those, there's a good chance I will too. Sometimes I develop games for fun too such as a work in progress 3D platformer.

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• Nintendo: Mario, Zelda, Kirby, Animal Crossing, Smash Bros, Fire Emblem, Metroid, Pikmin
• Platformers: Mega Man, Sonic
• Jrpgs: Final Fantasy, Deltarune, Bravely Default, Paper Mario
• Sand-Box: Minecraft, Terraria
• Roguelikes: The Binding of Isaac, Faster Than Light, Risk Of Rain 2
• FPS: Doom, Borderlands, any kind of co-op stuff. Competitive stuff I'm never too invested in.
• Battle Royale: Falls Guys (if that even counts lol)
• MMOs: Don't play them much anymore but as a kid I played a lot of Toontown, Roblox, Spiral Knights, Runescape, etc. The last MMO I tried to get into was FF XIV if anyone playing that would like to drag me into it :)

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Anime / Manga:

I've seen a good bit of shonen anime and a tiny bit of other stuff. Hunter x Hunter would be my favourite. Currently I'm also reading the One Piece manga.

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• Anime: Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball, FMA (2003 & Brotherhood), Death Note, Cowboy Bebop, Spy x Family, Chainsaw Man, Jujutsu Kaisen, Studio Ghibli Films
• Manga: One Piece, Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball Super
• Stuff I Want To Watch/Read: Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Naruto, Evangelion, Sailor Moon

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Other Random Interests:

I wouldn't put as much an emphasis on these but here's other things I like.

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• Movies: A lot of Pixar, Terminator, Alien, Blade Runner, Star Wars, Bat Man, Spider Man (Into The Spiderverse especially)
• Music: EDM, Vaporwave, OSTs of games & shows
• Books: Currently listening to a Dune audiobook (though I barely read tbh)
• Memes: Send memes pls
• Outdoorsy Stuff: Would be down to try hiking from time to time

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TLDR Of Who I'm Looking For 🔍

• Preferably you're in the age range of 20-32
• You have a very strong interest in either gaming, animated shows, anime/manga, or all the above :3
• Please be someone who is seriously seeking a monogamous relationship
• You're browsing this sub so I'd hope you're somewhere in the GTA. (I'm in the Durham region)
• I'd want to date virtually at least once to see if we click then we can also meet in person
• You better crave all the cuddles ;)
• You don't want kids
• You're cool that my libido is average and not high due to pelvic floor problems
• I wouldn't mind sharing selfies to start if you're comfortable with that
• Don't act genuinely interested and suddenly ghost pls, just be half decent and say you aren't interested anymore...
• Keep in mind I'm introverted, but I'd want to spend time with you consistently enough on at least a weekly basis, be it virtually over a call or in person. Plus daily texts.

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Ty for reading my essay or at least those bullet points. If this catches your eye then now's your chance to slide into my DMs and claim me. ;) ♥ ✨I'd prefer to start with reddit chat and afterwards I usually use Discord. You can introduce yourself with stuff such as a pic of yourself, any shared or unique interests, and what you're looking for. Or just pile on a huge list of tv show and anime recs if you want lol. Anything goes as long as it's more than a "hi".