Let me start my providing some background.

I am an experienced & authentic Dom and have been in the lifestyle in one way, shape or form for about 25 years now. I have many, many years of experience as a trainer and Master. The titles Master and Dom were given to me by my peers. I have great respect for those titles and wear it like a badge of honour. Dominant isn't something I do, it's something I am. I do not have a submissive bone in my body. Having said that it is important to note that I base everything on trust and respect that must be earned from the submissive.

In the beginning of my journey in this world I never would have imagined having my anus licked. Of course at that time I didn't even shave my genitals. Times change. What was once not even imaginable can eventually become normal course of business - so to speak.

I remember the first time I asked a girl to "go down a bit further" It was 2010 and I was at an airport hotel with my partner at the time. We had just had a great day out on the town. Our sex life was great and we were just starting to have some sexual fun that evening after somehow resisting each other due to being in public all day. I remember I was sitting down on one of those comfy chairs you find in a classy hotel when she just got on her knees, took out my cock and started sucking. Naturally, I had no qualms about this. Eventually, she worked her way down to my balls. She knew I enjoyed that too. I'm not sure where I got the inspiration - and perhaps it doesn't matter for the purpose of this posting - but I eventually spread my legs wider, shifted down a bit on the chair, and asked her to "go down a bit further". She did. And I was instantly hooked.

It was bliss. Pure and unadulterated ecstasy. Sex had always made me feel good but this feeling was absolutely new and incredible. Intoxicating even.

Later that evening she revealed she had never done that in the past. She never even contemplated it previously. She just did it because of my request. It was a spur of the moment type thing. She also disclosed to me that she loved it as well. She confided that it actually made her feel like both a "bad girl" because it was such a naughty thing to do, and a "good girl" because she could easily see how much I enjoyed it. It also gave her the feeling of being a bit of a rebel. Suffice to say, we continued with our new found kink from then on in. That also coincided with me starting to make sure I was always well groomed in that area.

Fast forward to today and I cant tell you how many woman have performed that on me over the past 14 years. In fact, I even have a special chair that I take out when the mood arises that makes it much easier for my partner to rim me and in a a much more comfortable way. Not every woman is into it - and that's fine. But I can safely say that over the last decade - out of all the women I have met and been intimate with - more are into giving rimjobs than not. Id say 75% are very cool with it. Which leads me back to my post title.

Is Rimming the new Blowjob?

I would love to hear from all you women out there. I want to know where you all stand with this. I want to know if you love giving a rimjob to your man and why? And if not, why not?

To the men out there....if you feel you have an interesting take or contribution to this topic I wouldn't mind hearing from you as well.