Here we are.

I am an experienced Dominant, seeking a submissive partner. I'm kinky, adventurous, intelligent, thoughtful, and deviant.

As far as BDSM goes, if you're under the impression it's all "40 shades of grey", Rhianna songs, leather, and people pretending to be daddies and little girls, then you are looking for something different that what D/s is to me. If you recognize that those are just specific areas of BDSM that some are drawn to, then that's perfect. I want a real interaction with a real person that has a real D/s dynamic and flow to it.

About You: We all have needs, wants, and preferences, and the list version of some of my big ones are below. These are just some general guidelines, so if you don’t check every single box exactly but still feel we’d be an amazing fit, message me anyway and show me.

Single Monogamous Childless (but wants kids in the future) 185 cm Age 25-44 Gainfully employed No serious/unmedicated mental health issues Knows what they want from a dynamic Looking for something IRL and longterm Sends pictures in their opening message, or has pictures in their profile Doesn’t treat me as a kink-dispenser Doesn’t try to turn this into some cringe-worthy roleplay as an escapist exercise Bonus points if you’re physically active and lift weights or have an athletic background in sports like basketball, swimming or volleyball growing up Also, please understand that I am a whole ass person, and while being dominant is a core part of who I am, it isn’t the only thing that I am. I’m also a human and a reciprocal partner, and if I see things slipping or feel like you’re not okay, I will question you and break that fourth wall when needed; it’s not a “non-dom” thing, it’s a good person thing.

The Fun Stuff: You’ve made it this far, so let’s talk brass tacks. My broad kinks include: - 24/7 TPE - Wardrobe control - Bathroom control - Meal/Exercise control - Orgasm control - Impact - Hairpulling - Spitting - Primal - Watersports - DDLG - Ropes/Restraints - Exhibition - Praise - Humiliation/Degradation - Anal/Anal training - Breeding - Displays of ownership, forced regression, enema play, somnophilia/light CNC, medical.

I know I write long ads. Also, please note I work non-traditional hours and am about to go to work, so if I don’t respond right away don’t think it’s because I’m not going to, it’s because I’ll do it once I have some down time. When I post, I tend to zero in on one or two people, try a dynamic on for size, but unfortunately, no perfect fits just yet. A lot of the people I’ve met are great, but as we all know this can be like searching for a needle in a haystack, and I’m not giving up just yet.

If you wish to see me visually, feel free to go to fetlife and search: hacknslashman