I'm not really sure how to start this, however, it's going to be rather unconventional.

I'm in my early 30's, caucasian, between 110-115lbs, brunette hair down to my waist, brown eyes, about 5'5 and I'm very active and take care of myself. Self-love is important to me and it should be to you as well. I'm also well educated and would like someone similar in this regard.

I am unfortunately a widow. If you think this is a red flag, are weirded out by it or view me as vulnerable, please move on now as I am not a match for you. After being in an amazing, loving and wonderful 13 year relationship/marriage, I would like to dip my feet back into the dating world. I'm seeking something mature, romantic, respectful and wonderful because I do believe that I can love again. That said, I am quite picky and will only respond to those that I think are a right fit for me. I have a dog and a baby and would also love to date someone with a child/children but this is not required.

I enjoy: cycling, running, make-up, documentaries about animals, trash reality tv, reading romance novels, doing nice things for people i love, fruit (especially raspberries), wine and visiting wineries, Monet and Van Gogh, meditation and spirituality, amateur baking, dressing up in lingerie, cuddling first thing in the morning, warm vacation destinations, video games(mostly league of legends, TFT, Sims and Valorant) but also love co-op games and now I don't have anyone to play Stardew with. I have a high sex drive and would love to meet someone to match this however, I am not into BDSM at all and not really willing to try. I prefer white, asian and indian men.

To be fully transparent, I did try my hand at a FWB but this type of dynamic is not for me and I would like something more commitment focused and hope to be someone's sun, moon and stars again.

If you do want to find out more, please be willing to share photos and enough about yourself that I can get an idea of who you are as a person.

I do not enjoy: people with no compassion for others, unsolicited dick photos, terrible work ethic and those who ghost.

Do not message me if:

You are married

You are under 30

You do not want children

You are not willing to be tested for STD/STI

You are non-monogamous

Thank you for reading my post :)