Searching for the right partner within the Peterborough area. I have had success with Redditors in Ontario and have enjoyed my experiences, but have beeb searching for something a little more ongoing. Someone that is able to meet more than once every few months due to the need for travel.

I am looking for someone that is aware of how intense CNC can be, so preferably you must have some sort of understanding of the type of aftercare that you require. If you are not experienced in CNC, but it has just been an ongoing fantasy you are finally looking to play out, expect that we will need to have a conversation about aftercare and the experience itself. No I am not going to simply come and grab you. Safe words of course are a necessity and for anything that leaves you unable to speak we will move forward with noise makers and grips to ensure you are able to communicate needs / adjustments / full stop.

If you prefer and are more comfortable meeting before hand. Open to meeting in a public location in a safe and efficient way if interested. You must also be more than just curious about the scene and fantasy. Be interested in actually planning and taking the time to run it. I spend a lot of time in conversations with people that love to role-play, that is not what I am looking for. Please be looking for the same,

I prefer to have the initial scenes scripted to start. Depending on your experience I am happy to start with something light, so you know exactly what to expect. Although most assume that knowing what is going to happen is going to break the realism, as long as it is done properly, I can assure you it won’t. With time and as you get more comfortable we can slowly transition to less and less scripting as time goes on at a pace you are comfortable with. The most important thing at this moment is finding an ongoing partner that shares this kink so we can both share and enjoy an ongoing situation without concern or judgement.

I myself am 5’10 fit, long black hair and well kept short almost stubble beard. I can host in a private home for scenes and assure the utmost discretion. You are obviously at least 18 or older, able to travel (I will host), interested in an ongoing scenario preferred and close to the area.

If you have read this far, are female and interested in playing this out, please include your favourite colour as the first message so I know you have actually read, understand and are interested in a serious conversation and meeting for some good, fun, safe CNC play. Please also include your hard limits and aftercare to make this as streamlined as possible.

Answers to the questions i get the most

• This is for IRL, safe con non con. I am not interested in online roleplay
• If you are not experienced in CNC, not a problem, be clear about that. I will answer any questions you have
• First scene will be discussed and created beforehand for you to read over so you are aware of exactly what is happening and what you are getting into
• I will need you to provide your hard limits ahead of time, if you do not know what they are, take some time to think about them. If you are looking to push your personal boundaries that's fine, but you need to confirm what those boundaries are and we will set a plan in place to properly push through them.
• Safe words are obviously a must. Grips or noise makers will be used in the event that the scene includes a gag that prohibits you from speaking.Yes your discretion is assured
• No i do not take pictures or video. If you want to, that's fine, however it will be recorded on your own device, never mine.
• I host in private home, for this scene, there will be a live grab, I have my areas of which I'm willing to do them from that I have spent much time scouting / using and can ensure they are safe
• Aftercare is a must. Be aware of what you need for aftercare
• NO I am not interested in men. No offense, it is just not what I am looking for and I don't have any sexual attraction to men.