Are you interested in trying CNC safely, respectfully and discretely? I am a fit male, 29, able to host. Experienced in CNC but have been looking for an ongoing partner to run multiple scenes with. I have had success on reddit with 1-off but am hoping to find a long term partner for ongoing CNC play.

I require no personal information ahead of time. If you feel more comfortable with meeting up first, this is absolutely doable. We will meet in a local neutral place ahead of time if you want to make sure I am the right partner for you beforehand. I will show up early, and wait for you to find me. If at any point during the conversation, if you are worried, nervous or not interested, simply say the word (We will discuss this over DM’s) and I will immediately leave. For your peace of mind I will leave first and you can wait until you see me drive away to ensure that you are as comfortable as possible before leaving.

I am opening to speaking in detail and answering questions for the right partner. I prefer to wait for someone that is as interested as I am than jump right in. Safe words are required, but I have my own that will be used. Additionally any scene that involves gag's or the inability to speak will use a noisemaker and or grips to ensure that you are able to communicate your needs. Before anything, I will need to know your hard limits so we can ensure that scenes match those limits. Please do not respond if you are serious. I am fortunate enough to have met some great people through Reddit, but that's only 1 for every 100 messages of people not actually interested and or ghosting before meeting. Let's not waste each other's time.

Below are some of the questions I get asked the most. Hopefully this provides some insight and information. If you are seriously interested in CNC, please include your favorite color as the first message, otherwise i will not respond.

Answers to the questions i get the most

• This is for IRL, safe con non con. I am not interested in online roleplay
• If you are not experienced in CNC, not a problem, be clear about that. I will answer any questions you have
• First scene will be discussed and created beforehand for you to read over so you are aware of exactly what is happening and what you are getting into
• I will need you to provide your hard limits ahead of time, if you do not know what they are, take some time to think about them. If you are looking to push your personal boundaries that's fine, but you need to confirm what those boundaries are and we will set a plan in place to properly push through them.
• Safe words are obviously a must. Grips or noise makers will be used in the event that the scene includes a gag that prohibits you from speaking.Yes your discretion is assured
• No i do not take pictures or video. If you want to, that's fine, however it will be recorded on your own device, never mine.
• I host in private home, for this scene, there will be a live grab, I have my areas of which I'm willing to do them from that I have spent much time scouting / using and can ensure they are safe
• Aftercare is a must. Be aware of what you need for aftercare
• NO I am not interested in men. No offense, it is just not what I am looking for and I don't have any sexual attraction to men.