Please read all the way through to save time/disappointment. I want this to be a positive experience, so I’m content to take my time finding the right person. It’s about the quality of the experience, not how quickly it comes together.

Hi 👋 I’m poly, married, and dating my Dom as a secondary partner. (Yes, my husband and partner know about each other, and everyone has met and even played together before.)

My Dom’s birthday is approaching in about a month. I wanted to potentially surprise him with a third person for a special night, maybe in a hotel, maybe at a local club.

⚠️Important: Currently, I’m intending this to be a one-off event, but if we really click, we could look at our options for the future. (Other scenes together or poly connection) I just don’t want to give the wrong impression or make any promises I can’t keep, so simply consider this as a one-off unless otherwise discussed.

It helps if you have a fl; if we hit it off, we can trade photos or usernames.

About us: Me(F): 34, 5’6”, bbw, demisexual, switch, married, DDF, vaxxed, non-smoker/non-drinker, 420 friendly

Him(M): 34, 5’11”, strong and physically active with a dadbod, pan, tattooed, Primal, not married, DDF, vaxxed

We have some preferences for potential partners that we can be flexible on, and we have some specifics we can’t bend.

Preferred: - Kinky - Bbw/soft-bodied - Tattoos - Piercings - Optimist - Conversationalist - Intellectual - Imaginative - Creative - Passionate

Required specifics: - Please be 35 - Femme-butch: women, NB, GF - Bi or pan - DDF (regularly tested or able to get tested before we meet,please) - Vaccinated - Strong sense of self with rock-solid boundaries. - Must have excellent communication skills and be clear on your needs and defining your comfort zone. - Sense of humor - Playful yet respectful - Comfortable with oral/vaginal penetration

⚠️Not interested in cis-men

(Also, I prefer there to be only one flesh-and-blood penis in the mix due to a previous, traumatic experience; No offense intended to any lovely people out there who may have been interested. Perhaps in the future, but I’m still healing.)

If you’re interested, please send me a message or chat. Tell me a little about yourself (your age, pronouns, interests, hopes, experience or preferences), and include any questions you have. Questions are encouraged.

I’m demi, so I’d prefer to spend a little time getting to know you before me ever meet, much less do a scene together. 😅

Thank you!