Greetings all. Im 45 and describe myself as a “bearded muscled daddy bear type”. Seems pretty accurate ;) I’m a contracting professional, long married to my high school sweetheart, who through no fault of her own (ptsd from childhood abuse) is just not available for a fulfilling or consistent sexual relationship. Volcanically libidinous but woefully sexually mismatched, Im looking for (ideally) a married woman who’s on the wrong end of chronic sexual frustration with an inattentive but loving and well meaning spouse. Neither of us is looking To tear apart our lives. But we both know what we need and realize we’re not getting it from our life partners or the parents of our children.
Despite some extra padding, I build muscle easily (endomorphs unite!) and I love lifting weights and doing hot yoga. I’ve never felt happier, more accepting of myself or sexier in my own body as I do now passing 45. But we got together when we were 19 and I need to experience the passion of a torrid affair with (ideally) a married or attached woman who’s feeling like the best sexual potential of her life is going to waste in a vanilla bedroom or with her own hand giving all the love. I’m tired of my woman cumming fast and losing all interest. I want to see what my body is capable of with a high libido or hyper sexual woman who’s not done till she’s reached double digits.
If you’re an older or younger woman who just digs a guy like me, and wants to give me what she’a not and gets off saying yes to what she says no to, who am I to decline. I’m a guy with ADD which means I’m expressive, impulsive and feel my emotions very deeply. I don’t even see those as negative anymore.

I’ve had wonderful experiences with women online who are like me (ADD women sure know how to express themselves sexually!) but I’m tired of them being hundred or thousands of miles away. Clean and d&d free. Very 420 friendly. Funny, smart, fit, well spoken sex positive and hyper sexual women to the front of the line, especially if getting stoned and fucking our brains out when we can sneak away to my truck or a room somewhere sounds like the perfect break to your crazy day with work and kids. I’m self employed and free to do what I want during the day, so ideally you are too. I’m also up at the cottage in muskoka alone all winter, (the possibilities of which seem endless of the connection is right). Something safe, intimate, discreet and explosive is the best way I can think of to improve my life with a woman who’s needs are synergistic with mine.
If you’re still reading, and intrigued, I look forward to connecting.
No drama. no bullshit. No ghosting. Mutual respect or nothing.
We’re both adults and know what we need. If and when we part ways we’re both appreciative and the better for it.
I hope this gives you butterflies right in the pit of your stomach (or lower).