2022 has been a powerful year for me in terms of fearlessness, feminism, and exploring my own deepest feelings and spirituality. I feel expansive, like a mushroom underground. My religion is human connection, and my denomination is somewhere between love and lust.

I went to a medium a few years ago and she told me that in a past life I was an energy healer. I think I might still be. Human intimacy, true connection, sexual or otherwise, can be incredibly restorative. If you're vulnerable with me, I'll spread the salve of love without limits on your broken parts.

Terms I use to describe myself: witch, empath, feminist, fat, writer, mother, bookworm, creative, loyal, strong. I’m interested in chats that go beyond hellos and into talking about the things that make us tick, give us pleasure, the moments that have shaped who we are, and the things we’re doing to shape who we will be. I crave connection, pleasure, and joy. I love that excitement you feel when you find instant comfort and familiarity, and sparks follow. This is the magic I want to cultivate.

I’m polyamorous and have a boyfriend who I live/parent with, a girlfriend, and a lot of love and affection to give. My relationship orientation was a lot easier to settle into than my still-evolving sexuality. Up until recently, I've mostly dated cis men, and that's something that I'm interested in breaking away from. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about whether my sexuality is inherent, and how big an influence societal expectations have played in the way I date. I don't feel straight, but I don't feel like bi or pan feel right either. I’ve settled for now on queer/questioning.

In a partner, more than anything else I'm looking for someone with an open heart, strong wit, maturity, intelligence, and flexibility. So many different types of relationships can be great, and am looking for more than a booty call and less than marriage. Like, love, and lust don't have to come with limitations, labels, expectations or next-steps. While I'd love to find something ongoing, I don't believe the value of a relationship is based on longevity, but on intention, honesty, and chemistry.

I see opportunities for human connection as infinite, I have a big heart and am open to what comes my way. Let's dive in and see where it takes us. Tell me about things that make you feel. I will listen to you talk about your day to day like it's the greatest story ever told, and mean it. Send me photos of little details you noticed, and the things you do/make/are proud of, and I'll be rapt. Let's get vulnerable and grow our humanity together.

I’m looking mostly for people I can meet in person, whether that means you live nearby (NW Washington) or are planning a visit in the near future. I’m only interested in folks who are single or in open/enm relationships - not interested in helping anyone cheat or being part of a don’t ask/don’t tell type arrangement. Please be over 25, so I don’t feel like I’m your mom.