Hey everyone! I am a 32-year-old a lady here on Reddit trying to meet people that I vibe with. I am looking for interesting conversation, fun banter back and forth, someone with common interests, and maybe even some flirting (no d pics please, and I'd prefer the flirting evolve over time). Also, please wait to send me a photo. I'd rather feel out the conversation first before we exchange photos.

I'm interested in someone within my age range (28-38). I'm hoping to meet/talk to someone with ambitions, someone who's accomplished, someone who is actively improving and challenging themselves. I consider myself To be someone who has their shit together, I'd like the same in a potential friend/partner.

I do enjoy phone conversations (Let's be real, this is starting on discord… Before any phone numbers are exchanged), and this would most likely be my preferred method of getting to know you along with texts and exchanging of memes and pictures (from our day & eventually ourselves). It would be cool if we eventually met in person (obviously when we're both comfortable, not tomorrow). I am interested in meeting someone who engages in healthy communication skills (i.e. does not make assumptions, takes accountability, ability to apologize when necessary and appropriate, communicating thoughts and feelings with one another, respectful of my boundaries, etc) and understands that I have a full time job. I will not entertain conversations with someone who wants to control me, talk down to me, see me as less than, or requires that I make myself smaller so that you feel comfortable. I'm an independent woman, and I will not make myself smaller to make you comfortable. If this is a big ask, please do not send me a message.

Send me a message or chat invite, tell me about yourself. How old are you? What are your hobbies? What are you looking for?

A little about me... I am Mexican American with a tint of German. Hablo Español. I am quite nerdy, but feel like an undercover nerd/geek until you really get to know me. Maybe my glasses give me away though 🤓. I'm college educated, I have my Master's degree. I am pretty liberal and tend to prefer others who have similar there is to have somewhere points of view. I'm a plus sized lady and working on myself. I play video games. I own my own home. I am a cat mom to the most adorable kitties (wub em so much 😍). Ask me some questions, let's get to know each other. :)

Send me a chat invite or message. :)

If we buy the, we can move our conversation to discord. I do not plan on signing up for any other communication app or platform. If that's a problem, either download discord or don't message me at all.

Just a heads up, I will delete any message that clearly did not read my post fully.

Best wishes to you all.