I’m a witchy, empathetic, polyamorous, sex-positive and wordy 40-something looking for chatting that leads to spending physical time together. I crave connection, pleasure, and joy. I love that excitement you feel when you find instant comfort and familiarity, and sparks follow. This is the magic I want to cultivate.

I have a boyfriend who I live/parent with, a girlfriend, and a lot of love and affection to give. My relationship orientation was a lot easier to settle into than my still-evolving sexuality. Up until recently, I've mostly dated cis men, and that's something that I'm interested in breaking away from. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about whether my sexuality is inherent, and how big an influence societal expectations have played in the way I date. I don't feel straight, but I don't feel like bi or pan feel right either. I’ve settled for now on queer/questioning.

I love going to the movies, craft cocktails, dinosaurs, cinnamon buns, pizza, and making art. My favorite movie is Jurassic Park, and my favorite book is Feminist Werewolf by Katie Anthony. I love learning about people’s passions, the things that make them tick, and the weird little bits of life that bring joy, sadness, and vulnerability.

In a partner, more than anything else I'm looking for someone with an open heart, strong wit, maturity, intelligence, and flexibility. I believe there are lots of different types of relationships that can be great, and am looking for more than a booty call and less than marriage. Limitations and labels aren't necessary.

Like, love, and lust don't have to come with expectations or next-steps. I see opportunities for human connection as infinite, I have a big heart and am open to what comes my way. Let's dive in and see where it takes us. Tell me about things that make you feel. I will listen to you talk about your day to day like it's the greatest story ever told, and mean it. Send me photos of little details you noticed, and the things you do/make/are proud of, and I'll be rapt.

While I'd love to find something ongoing, I don't believe the value of a relationship is based on longevity, more on intention, honesty, and chemistry. Let's get vulnerable and grow our humanity together.