Normally I make really long posts. That hasn’t worked super well in the past year so I am going to try much shorter this time and get straight to the point and see how that works out. That being said the stuff is still up so, if you are interested feel free to peruse the past posts in my profile.

Basic info- I am 6.2 230 white, dad bodding it up

Relocation- I will not be leaving California anytime soon. I am building a house here and suffice to say its going to take lots of time, energy, and a stupid amount of money. If you are anywhere inside Cali that is great. If you are outside Cali you would need to be willing to relocate in the future.

Work- I work for the government, been working around 72 hrs a week for 2-3 years now. Pretty hectic I know but building a house isn’t cheap. I will of course take time off to spend with you!

Distance- preferably in California, LDR just… ugh… we all know it sucks lol, its hard to meet up out of state. Specifically, I am in central California, fresno

Family- big on family, happy wholesome family, building my house on family land as well

Personality- my personality is ISFJ.

Age/attraction- just a number & personality is more important

Language- my love language is physical touch. It is very important to me. I am all about those cuddles. I very much miss little things like holding hands, running my fingers through someone’s hair or down their arms. Intimacy is how I express myself and very important to me. It doesn’t have to be important to you, but it needs to be something you enjoy. Clingy touchy people to the front.

Straight edge- I am pretty vanilla in many aspects. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs. There Is no drama in my life. Small group of close friends. I don’t use social media. Been out of relationships for a while. I might be a tad bit boring actually if you are not into anything nerdy lol.

Hobbies: I am pretty much a homebody introvert type nerd. Video games, anime, card games, board games, tabletop, j-pop/k-pop/ Chinese/Japanese/Korean TV fantasy/drama yadda yadda etc etc, you get it lol. I love a night in cuddled up watching something or playing a game. I would enjoy traveling under the right circumstances though. A trip to the zoo, museum, aquarium, anywhere we can walk around holding hands and looking at cute stuff is a win. Japan would be a lovely visit.

Ideal night: simply a night cuddled up on the couch watching something or playing a game. Perhaps after we have gone out somewhere like the zoo and looked at cute animals while holding hands, maybe picked up some food on the way home.

You: preferably interested in gaming, or some type of nerdy, preferably in cali, preferably loves intimacy, preferably a homebody with possible interest in doing some exploring, im using preferably a lot here because… well you just never know until you talk to someone :p

This seems so short compared to what I normally do… lol but I will end it here. If you want more info or something longer just poke around my history. Chat or mail is fine, no one liners please.