31 f4a switch looking for long term dynamic with potential of it being more.

To be blunt, I’m looking for more than friends with benefits. If you’re married, are emotionally unavailable, or have no desire for anything romantic happening… I’m not the post you’re looking for.

That being said, I’m not looking to rush headfirst into things. Finding someone I’m compatible with sexually, romantically, and platonically is my ultimate end goal, but I also like to enjoy the journey that leads to that destination.

Looking to find someone I can learn inside and out, and not just what turns them on or gets them off.

When it comes to what I’m looking for in a partner, I’m panromantic demisexual and am attracted to any and all genders. Please be between the ages of 30-45. I am not looking for ANYTHING younger - and because I know I’m going to get younger anyway, you will be ignored and blocked since you can’t respect basic boundaries. I don’t mind older within a limit but it definitely is not preferable.

As I said, I’m not looking for someone who’s married or already in a relationship. I don’t want an open relationship. I’m monogamous and I’m not settling for anything else.

I’m also currently looking for a Dom(me) leaning switch who is willing to both dominate me and submit to me. I want the full spectrum with one person and that’s proven to be pretty difficult to find.

Also looking for someone who is already familiar with and (preferably) has experience with hypnosis. If not, please don’t waste both of our times. I’m mostly a sub when it comes to hypno but I have tried my hand as a tist a couple of times and really, really enjoy it. It’s something I hopefully want to dive deeper into :)

Please do not message me if you plan on calling me or yourself any honorific. That takes trust; I’m not your baby girl or your Mommy or your Mistress, and you are not my Daddy or baby boy. Honorifics are earned and require a large amount of trust. I am not comfortable jumping into these roles without prior conversation, especially in regards to consent. I do not feel comfortable jumping headfirst into anything sexual either; I do like to have at least some conversation beforehand.

Aftercare is a must and I will make no exceptions.

I want someone I can have fun with outside of kink/sex. I guess I want a friend first and anything else second. I’d really rather not jump head first into anything sexual, but I don’t mind talking about kinks on general to start off with. It takes me a minute to get comfortable with people, and I have the tendency of coming off a bit aloof at first - but it typically doesn’t take long for me to open up

I’m into all kinds of things as far as kinks go and I am more than willing to have a discussion about them :)

I live in Kentucky, but I’m mostly interested in just something online for now. Maybe if things progress, we can take it real life. But I have a career I’m focusing on at the moment and I want to get myself in a more comfortable situation money wise before taking things real life.

I’ve got the whole witchy/alt vibe going on. Plus sized. I have several piercings and tattoos and desire more. I don’t drink or smoke or do hard drugs, but I’m a 420 participant and I’m willing and wanting to try psychedelics at some point if that’s something you’re interested in. Definitely prefer someone who is also a 💨🍃er; probably won’t work out if you’re not.

Looking forward to meet you :) if I come off as abrasive it’s because I’ve learned I have to be in these posts. I’m looking for a very specific thing and I want to try to scare off as many that don’t fit what I’m looking for as possible. The amount of people who will message me anyway when we have zero in common and they tick none of my boxes is… ridiculous, to be honest.

I have discord and am willing to give it out because I hate mobile reddit.