I'm a 41 year old witchy empath living in the PNW. I am a writer (memoir/essay mostly) and make lots of art, love craft cocktails, books I can’t put down, riding the ferry into the San Juan Islands, going to the movies, the smell of lilacs, and lake days with my girlfriend. We’re polyamorous, and I also have a boyfriend I live with. They are both the bees knees. My home also houses 2 teen kids and 2 jerk cats (all cats are jerks).

2022 has been a year of growth, opening, expansion, and discovery for me. I am embracing fearlessness, spirituality, creativity, and love in new and expanded ways. I’m a raging feminist grieving the repeal of Roe v. Wade, which changed something in me permanently. My basic life philosophy is a lot about letting go of things that don’t bring positive value, and finding hope through real connections on an intimate level.

I'm tired of one word introductions, being asked "what do you want to know?" and being told to "ask me anything." I want engaging, comfortable, interesting conversation with flirty undertones that eventually become overtones. I love the anticipation that can build through wordplay and teasing, and crave the sharing of energy, pleasure, and humanity.

Ultimately, I'd love to find all these things in someone I can meet and spend physical time with, but right now what I'm lusting after most of all is intelligent, meaty conversations full of honesty, vulnerability, ebb and flow, and attraction. Human connection is the tits, and I want to share my energy with folks who are open to getting vulnerable and getting to know each other.

Nitty Gritties:

• I’m not interested in monogamy, and you should be single or in an ethically non-monogamous relationship
• I’m open to chat only/long distance on a very limited basis for the right connections, but am most excited about finding folks nearby I can meet in person
• I don’t date folks under 25 years old, it’s just too much of a gap for me.
• It’s really hard currently for me to have visitors at home, so if you can host, that’s a big advantage.

Not sure how to start the convo? Here are some ideas - your answer gets mine!

• Five characters that could be mashed up to create you
• Five movies I could watch to get a solid idea of who you are
• Five songs you’re listening to on repeat right now
• Five things you’re looking for in a partner
• Five words that describe you