Hi there!

I've been obsessed with Brandi's song "You and me on the rock" all month and it tugs at my heartstrings so damn bad to the point that I get teary eyed.

I listen to it and can't help but admit that I want to feel that way about someone and have someone feel that way about me.

I know - disgusting and mushy, sorry lol

I'm in a sensitive period in my life now, my emotions are heightened but albeit gentle and soft.

Some of the plans I had mapped out for myself this year fell through due to factors beyond my control BUT I'm doing great, appreciating the progress I've made, navigating my emotions and moving forward.

I'd like to meet someone I can talk to and be myself with. I'm not sure what that looks like right now or how it'll evolve but time would tell! I'm open and ready to take a leap in the direction that brings me genuine peace and happiness so let's get it started :)

Not my intention to write a thesis here but I can't help it, I tend to ramble when I'm nervous.

My profile will give some insight into what I'm about but I'll give a brief intro.

About me: You'll find I'm reserved and soft spoken but won't fail to cheer you up with my loud, bellyaching laughter. No kidding my laugh is really legendary..

I'm passionate about my interests - (Food, Art, Music, documentaries, politics, sustainable development, gardening and aromatherapy), I'm African and I live in Africa, although I might be moving next year - please know this before you send a message

My friends and family consider me driven, protective, kind and giving, I consider myself quietly strong willed and independent.

I'm in tune with my femininity, emotionally mature and patient. I should note here that I strongly prefer voice calls as I connect and read a person much better this way, so feel free to suggest a place we can move to for this early enough.

About you : Single, 28 - 48 and generally have your life together. I'd hope you're a gentleman who is kind and respectful.

I'm attracted to quiet confidence, drive/ambition, gentleness, emotional maturity, and a good sense of humour.

Things I'm not looking for: Any age outside the age range I listed, casual hookups, polyamory/ attached people and vulgarity.

Mutual attraction matters so here's a view of me: https://ibb.co/yVf7xBR

Might be foolhardy of me to hope this brings a lasting connection that's worthwhile but I'm open to platonic connections too.