Wow, what a time to be a woman in America.

Yet, somehow, I still crave flirtation, witty banter you can lose yourself in, and most of all what it leads to. I love the anticipation that can build through wordplay and teasing, and crave the sharing of energy, pleasure, and humanity. Ultimately, I'm looking to connect with locals or folks who travel/will be traveling to my area (Northwest Washington) in the near future.

I thrive on deep, comfortable connections with the people I care about. I propagate joy. I don't believe that love, lust, devotion, or intimacy require expectations or next-steps. I'm fat and sexy, if that seems oxymoronic to you, just keep scrolling. There are photos in my profile, take a look before you message. While I'd love to find something ongoing, longevity doesn't dictate value.

I'm a raging feminist, and can't abide interacting with folks who don't believe in a woman's right to choose, that black lives matter, and that our system is inherently racist and misogynistic. When Roe v. Wade was repealed, something changed in me permanently. I can't smash the patriarchy while banging someone who doesn't believe it exists.

Speaking of banging, I'm super sex-positive and embrace intimacy and pleasure full-force. This doesn't mean I want to sleep with everyone I meet, but it means that I believe sexual connection is healthy, free of shame, and something to be embraced.

But, what about you? I want to hear your story and see your passions. I will listen to you talk about your day to day like it's the greatest story ever told, and mean it. Send me photos of your everyday, little details you noticed, and the things you do/make/are proud of, and I'll be rapt. I swoon for for wittiness, ability to tell Dad jokes with casual confidence, emotional presence, and engaging conversational skills.

Nitty Gritties:

• I’m polyamorous w/a boyfriend I live with, and a girlfriend. I’m not interested in monogamy, and you should be single or in an ethically non-monogamous relationship
• You should be local or planning a visit locally soon: I’m not looking for chat-only or long distance/online based.
• I don’t date folks under 25 years old, it’s just too much of a gap for me.
• It’s really hard currently for me to have visitors at home, so if you can host, that’s a big advantage.

Not sure how to start the convo? Here are some ideas - your answer gets mine!

• Five characters that could be mashed up to create you
• Five movies I could watch to get a solid idea of who you are
• Five songs you’re listening to on repeat right now
• Five things you’re looking for in a partner
• Five words that describe you