Normally I make really long posts… lol. That hasn’t worked super well in the past year so I am going to try much shorter this time and get straight to the point and see how that works out. That being said the stuff is still up so, if you are interested feel free to peruse the past posts in my profile.

Basic info- I am 6.2 230 white

Relocation- I will not be leaving California anytime soon. I am building a house here and suffice to say its going to take lots of time, energy, and a stupid amount of money. If you are anywhere inside Cali that is great. If you are outside Cali you would need to be willing to relocate in the future. That being said I tend to lose interest when people are in other states just because its so hard to meet each other.

Work- I work for the government, been working around 72 hrs a week for 2-3 years now. Pretty hectic I know but building a house isn’t cheap. I will of course take time off to spend with you.

Distance- preferably in central California, but anywhere in Cali works. Specifically, I am in Fresno.

Family- big on family, happy wholesome family, building my house on family land as well

Personality- my personality is ISFJ.

Age/attraction- just a number & personality is more important

Language- my love language is physical touch. It is very important to me. I am all about those cuddles. I very much miss little things like holding hands, running my fingers through someone’s hair or down their arms. Intimacy is how I express myself and very important to me. It doesn’t have to be important to you, but it needs to be something you enjoy. Clingy touchy people to the front.

Straight edge- I am pretty vanilla in many aspects. I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs. There Is no drama in my life. Small group of close friends. I don’t use social media. Been out of relationships for a while. I might be a tad bit boring actually if you are not into anything nerdy lol.

Hobbies: I am pretty much a homebody introvert type nerd. Video games, anime, card games, board games, tabletop, j-pop/k-pop/ Chinese/Japanese/Korean TV fantasy/drama yadda yadda etc etc, you get it lol. I love a night in cuddled up watching something or playing a game. I would enjoy traveling under the right circumstances though. A trip to the zoo, museum, aquarium, anywhere we can walk around holding hands and looking at cute stuff is a win. Japan would be a lovely visit.

You- I am going to divide this into 2

You-1 – Preferably a gamer or some time of nerdy homebody/introvert anywhere in cali with hopefully a thing or two in common.

You-2- In frenso or semi close to me- That’s it lol. I have spent the better part of my 30’s fixing up my life for the better. Now that I am building a house and have everything together, I am finally ready to settle down and get back out there. I have been alone for a while however and have some catching up to do. I would love some company practicing getting back out there. I don’t honestly like our chances if you are like super into outdoor stuff or we have nothing in common. That being said if you are close you could enjoy some free food/movie/activity or something else and chat with a stranger so I can get some practice getting back out there though!

This seems so short compared to what I normally do… lol but I will end it here. Chat or Pm is fine, no one liners please.