Hello!. I'm going to be very forward here,

I'm tired of playing games. I'm going to tell you a bit about me, and than I'm going to tell you what I'm not looking for. As I said, I'm tired of playing games. I will trust and respect you from the beginning until you give me a reason not to.

My name is Matt and I'm a soft daddy/pleasure dom. I'm very loving, affectionate, and caring. My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation as well as quality time all tied together, followed by acts of service. I'm chubby with curly brown hair and a beard. I am in Central Kentucky, I love communication, talking throughout the day, effort that's all very important to me. I like country music, I'm a picky eater, I love animals and I'm very open minded. Im looking for someone who sgares sone of these same qualities and also wants to build something specisl. There's tons more to know about me but I really hope you'll take a few moments to message me so we can start getting to know each other. I really hope to hear from you. :)

Here is what NOT to do.

Do not message me if I will need to drive the ENTIRE conversation. It should be an even effort. You will never be the only one driving. I put in a whole heck of a lot of effort.

Do not message me if disabilities bother you. Yes I have one. But I also have a job.

Do not message me if your first message to me is "Hi" "hello" or "How are you" and only that. I put effort in to my messages to you, I except the same.

Do not message me if you're messages are consistently one or two words and you don't know how to use emojis or show emotion in your messages.

Do not message me if you are UNDER 200 pounds soaking wet.

Do not message me if after talking to me for any period of time and you are just going to up and disappear without saying a word. I understand some people do this to avoid getting called nsmed and conflict by men. But I am not like that. I have respect for you and I ask you do the same for me. If you feel this will not work, thsn say so. I'll be sad, sure. But I won't be mean to you.

Do not message me if physical touch and affection bothers you.

Do not message me if "tell me about you please" results in "Well what do you want to know" this tells me you don't know yourself at all or what you want and you need to step back and get to know and love yourself first.

I'm sorry if this seams too forward or stren or whatever, but I'm tired of playing games.

Bonus points if you are okay with poly/Ethical non monogamy/open relationships BUT ITS NOT REQUIRED.

Bonus points if you have a praise kink and wear thigh highs. Joking but also serious.

Bonus points if you love Disney.

Bonus points if you can tell me without Google what Peter pan's favorite place to eat out is.

I'm a good person who truly wants the best for you and wants to make you happy. I'm a big teddy bear. Please shoot me a message and grab my attention. I'll give you a cookie if you do a heckin good message.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.