My life's been in flux, and in the last 6 months I've gone whole hog in letting go of fear, fucks about what other people think, and the remnants of any cares I had about whether it sounds crazy when I say I'm a witch and my magic comes alive through human connection & intimacy.

In no particular order, a few of my favorite things:

• Flirting, witty banter, and engaging conversations
• Being near the water (especially Washington coastal waters)
• The smell of lilacs

• Anticipation

• A gooey, warm cinnamon bun

• Romantic and platonic love

• Orgasms

• Creating beautiful things - human connections, writing, art, music, a really useful spreadsheet

• Dad jokes & terrible puns

• Dinosaurs

• Laughing until my stomach is sore

• Hearing about your favorite things

I'm an empath, polyamorous, sex-positive, and wordy. I'm fat and sexy, if that seems oxymoronic to you, just keep scrolling. There are photos in my profile, take a look before you message. I love the anticipation that can build through wordplay and teasing. I have a boyfriend who I live/parent with and a girlfriend who I'd like to live with someday - sorry to my younger self, but it seems like living on a commune with all my witchy, hippy, poly loves is now the dream.

I thrive on energy flow with the people I care about. I propagate joy. I don't believe that love, lust, devotion, or intimacy require expectations or next-steps. Opportunities for human connection are infinite, longevity doesn't dictate value, I have a big heart and am open to what comes my way.

What I'm looking for

• Local people - within 1ish hours of Bellingham or willing to travel - for ongoing connections
• Folks visiting Bellingham/Seattle/the PNW sometime in the near future who would like to add some fun to their trip
• Folks who enjoy chatting, building connection through words, and getting vulnerable and open together, engaging conversation
• Emotional intelligence, intention, honesty, chemistry, and a genuine desire for thoughtful and intentional connection
• Generally attracted to men and masc-presenting folks but I'm open to exploration & evolution
• People who are single or in an open relationship (sorry, DADT arrangements are outside my comfort zone)

Logistics/Housekeeping aka Practicality

• Pro-Trump, anti-vax, or anti-choice? We are not compatible.
• If you're under 25, I appreciate the interest, but it's not going to happen.

• I can't host at my house, so if you can't either, it's going to be hard to hang.

• I work normal business hours, I'm not going to be able to hang out during weekdays most of the time.