Well I'm sure I may raise some eyebrows saying I'm looking for a Cuckoldress right in my title, but I'm tired of beating around the bush and bringing that desire in me up too late and realizing I'm just not compatible with someone I'm already building a bond with, so I'm laying the cards out from the get-go.

I'm a successful, big and tall white IT professional sub through and through, not a dom/switch or brat bone in me. I’m experienced and passionate about serving- it's not just about sex it's a lifestyle. I’m looking for more than just casual fun—I want to build something meaningful with someone who shares my values and interests. I love giving up control and feeling vulnerable to a woman who I have complete and total trust in. Humiliation given mixed with the warmth of sweetness and caring makes me melt. If you enjoy having your hair brushed/straightened, nails done and just being groomed and pampered by your partner, we'll get along great because I find it the best bonding experience to share. And of course, I'm just so insanely attracted to a woman who takes the sex she wants from men and throws them away after, only to choose to cuddle and sleep beside me. I'm a hugger and a cuddler! Seeing my partner lusted on and wanted and taken so passionately makes me so proud and just melts my heart... If you get it you get it.

Outside of kink, I love to cook, garden, tinker with electronics, play videogames and just be a pretty normal white newbalance middle aged dude who takes a little too much pride in his lawn. Binge watcher of quality TV, into politics and debate and have my shit together. I love fine wines and top shelf tequila and only occasionally smoke weed/do edibles.

I'm looking for a woman who has some curves who isn't shy about her body and enjoys kink for the thrill and taboo who is open-minded, non judgemental and easy going most of all! I just ask that you not already be in a relationship, and that you be open to building something long-term together if things click.

Hope to hear from you and see where a life together might take us!