Hi r/r4rmontreal! I hope you all survived the holiday madness and are settled in for the long cold.

I'm a relatively inexperienced sub-leaning switch (for this ad, I'm only interested in taking a submissive role). My kinks include denial, small penis humiliation, degradation/humiliation, and others.

I have a Kink3D Baby Cobra cage and would love to find someone with mutual interests to try some denial play.

I appreciate a wide variety of gender expression, body shapes, and personal aesthetics - that said, as part of my degradation kink, I'm on board with being body-shamed in scenes so long as it doesn't extend outside the scene. Safe play (including condoms) is a must if penetrative sex is incorporated into the dynamic. Couples welcome, too.

Physically, I am fat (~320lbs, the COVID era was not kind to my waistline lol), short (5'9"), and bearded with moderate body hair. I have a very small cock (why I love SPH - please make fun of it if that's your thing!) and prefer to be a source of sexual pleasure while being denied my own sexual release. If you're interested in more than the just denial/keyholding, I'd love to give oral, learn to receive anal (cock or strap-on), get verbally/physically degraded, and more! I'm a bit of a people-pleaser, so in many cases knowing you're turned on by a kink turns me on performing it with you.

Some things to keep in mind - I'm married. It is a long-term dead bedroom situation (which is why I can be locked up without my spouse noticing the cage, lol) but I need discretion. I know not everyone is comfortable with that, so I want to be up front about it. It also means I usually can't host unless they're traveling.

I've chatted with others from the sub in the past, but so far I remain sadly unlocked lol.

I'd prefer to meet first and establish some baseline trust before actually handing over a key. For emergencies, I'd like to keep one key in a tamper-evident container, which you can check to ensure I haven't been cheating.

Thanks for reading, MTL! Let me know if you have any questions. :)