I’m a single, monogamous, childless woman with progressive values seeking someone similarly single, monogamous, and progressive for a committed relationship that can blossom into romantic and sexual love.

Something of a loner, I have a wide variety of passions and interests that keep me busy, from reading and writing to sewing and gardening to watching motor sports and going to concerts. I love learning new things, going to museums and cultural events, and doing increasingly niche DIY projects and crafting.

Although I’m naturally introverted, I am more than capable of turning on the charm and socializing—within reason! My social battery definitely needs to be recharged regularly.

I am kind, realistically optimistic, loyal, and sweet. I’m looking for someone who can be a value added to my life, someone I’m excited to spend time with, who will support me as much as I support them, a true partner. I don’t want to have to always be the one in the charge—I get enough of that at work.

I want to be with someone who is charmed when I babble about history or comics or the seeds I cultivated to plant next year. Someone who sends me random memes when they think of me. While there is so much in today’s world to be angry about, I’m looking for someone who can still find joy while remaining informed and engaged. Shared interests are great but shared values matter more to me; I’m a queer woman with a disability and friends who are trans. If you think there should be laws against any of that, we’re not compatible.

I think I have a lot to offer to the right person. I deeply care about people. I’m relentlessly and genuinely curious. I love to make the people around me feel seen and heard and loved.

In terms of kinks—and that’s why we’re all HERE, isn’t it?—I’m a submissive-leaning switch with a preference for dirty talk, degradation as praise, and praise kink. I like roleplay and am interested in exploring light bondage. A gentle Dom or Domme is preferred.

While I’m inexperienced, I am eager to learn and grow with the right partner, though they’ll need to be patient with me. As the title mentions, I’m demisexual, which functionally means that one-night stands and hookups are not in my repertoire. My mind needs to be seduced before my body will follow.

Kink is ideal for me because there’s so much focus on the mental aspect of sex, which gets my motor running more than anything. I want to submit, to feel precious and cared for and small. I want to feel shameless and wanton, a perfect little slut who knows what’s desired of her through your careful and clear instruction.

Physically speaking, I’m white enough that I’ve burned just waiting for the bus. I stand just under 5’4” with dark blonde hair that grazes my shoulders. I’m curvy but regularly active. I wear glasses and have one tattoo (with no plans for more). I’m reasonably but not exceptionally pretty, and I’m most often complimented on my eyes and smile.

Please note I am not based in Montreal but live within a 90-minute drive of the city. I am frequently in the downtown area. Due to my work schedule, I’m not presently available for dates on weeknights unless you’re willing to make a drive out to the countryside.

I realize this is a pretty long post, and that ladies who post here often get bombarded with weird messages. If you’re a single, monogamous, progressive, Dominant person between the ages of 30-45 and are interested in pursuing something, I’d love to know the following:

1. Why did this post resonate with you?
2. What gets you excited about life?
3. What are some of your favourites: movies, TV, music, hobbies, etc.
4. What is something non-sexual we could do together?
5. What is something sexual we could do together?

I do not smoke, drink, or do drugs and am STI free. I am not interested in smokers (including pot) or drug users. If you occasionally drink a glass of wine, we’re fine, but if you drink multiple times a week we’re likely not compatible. Similarly, I am not religious; if religion is important to you, we’re not romantically compatible.

Pictures are available upon request if I feel there’s enough in common to share, though feel free to send a picture of your face and/or clothed body if you so wish! Please keep your genitals to yourself at this time, thank you.